Can You Be Both A Spank-Yes And A Spank-No?

I think that sometimes I am both a spank-yes and a spank-no!

Or is it a spank-no and then a spank-yes?

Now reading or talking and thinking about spanking is always, and I mean always a spank-yes! Play, well….that may be altered some by my stress. I am not sure recently, if it was because of my awful mood…. And guilt…!

Let me explain….

Since Christmas is over I am pretty much over the crazy….. ‘ME.’

 Let’s see if you understand my divergent thoughts!

So much had been happening around here that I haven’t had time to think clearly enough to post!

The stress of the Christmas season had just about driven me crazy…..I was/am training and working 3 different part time jobs, (two are teaching) managing the season and family life the best I can.

Even writing this…..my jaw tenses lol.

My husband has been working almost every night, at least 10-12 hours, not counting the hour drive there and back. I was looking forward to him having the night off the Thursday prior to Christmas; it was actually a surprise occurrence relating to bad weather.

You know how the law of averages can seem to team up on you?

It was a difficult day and went from bad to worse. I will not go into detail but I am sure many of you understand when everyone is in that “place”….and nasty moods rub off on your loved ones.

I am going to be perfectly honest here…..

I was a raving lunatic that Thursday night.  I actually lost it so badly that I almost didn't recognize my voice. Maybe you understand the voice I mean?

My solution was to take a nice long hot bath. My nastiness wasn't completely dissipated but….what can one do when your house is small and full?

 Maybe say sorry even if you are right! 

However Teen and young adult absented themselves from the house and I was quickly encouraged into the bedroom.

I may have mentioned this to a few of you……do not take a hot bath before some spanky fun…stress relief (maybe stress relief for hubby) lol…..foreplay……that night it equaled….ouch.

Oh maybe the problem was that the warm-up…… was not!! Or maybe I was trying to control exactly what my darling was doing….not that he was listening. He was fine, he had a great time!

Anyway I felt like a spank-no! Yet, happily it quickly led to other things….ahem.

I was happy to connect…but not stress free! Sigh. Still too much to do.

Eventually....

Shopping was completed (Daughter is amazing) cooking finished just in time for Christmas Eve. We arrived barely at the appointed hour, with almost everything. I actually needed to leave the party and purchase one more gift that was forgotten at home. Sheesh....!

We are a corny family, and we sang Christmas Karaoke, hula hooped…

(Thanks for the hula hoop gift idea Wilma) and we danced. After the festivities, we went to Mass, and managed to sleep some, prior to Christmas morn.

Now fast forward to Christmas day, night. We worked our butts off and had a lovely, lovely day. Cat's cake and Wilma's shortbread were thoroughly enjoyed after my lovingly prepared steak pie and ham Christmas dinner. I had a few glasses of wine and just enjoyed everyone.

Winding down….stress leaving….satisfaction of making it all come together. Sigh of happiness.

It certainly made me feel great when my darling Scott thanked me and said I was wonderful.

This time as we waited for those children of ours to absent themselves….I fell asleep. I was woken up to a suggestion for some practice and fun. By this time I was comfortably ensconced in his giant shirt and some lovely baggy sweat pants. So sexy!

 I was definitely game… so off we went….Spank-yes for him…. and Spank-yes for me! It was a red Christmas. Win-Win

He even said, “what have you done to me?” Me??? We definitely had a great time.

So anyone else have these conundrums? How about you experienced spankos?

I mean this doesn't count that which he doesn't label, the…. just half joking, pulling me across his knees... which isn't erotic or sexy…his words.

Oh well…..thanks for reading!

Minelle