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Wednesday, January 28, 2015

Spanked four times in two days!



                 This past weekend was quite a spanking affair!
              (I did a quick sketch to show the spanking! LOL)



 I believe I was spanked 4 times in two days and 3 times all on Saturday! I can still feel the muscle soreness.

Unfortunately things have been stressful for the Scotsman and me! We have both been on edge. Extenuating circumstances have added to our stress and ratcheted it from a standard 5 to a 20! Unfortunately we have had words. WE always get past them and hate being angry or upset with one another.

I have said it before. We do not do DD, at least not in the traditional sense. When I am out of control the Scotsman will reign me in. If he finds my attitude snippy, snarky and nasty, he attends to me with an adjustment, and I am a happy camper! That doesn’t mean I don’t feel his ire. His simple OTK moments are heartfelt….oops I mean bottom felt! But like our Jan, I “MOSTLY” come up smiling. It’s often a complete mood changer for me. Even with the sting!

He definitely gets something from spanking me. His mood improves as well. (snicker) For him there is another benefit as well…..OF THE ROMANTIC VARIETY!

On Friday night my mom fell. I found out on Saturday morning. Of course I was extremely worried. The Scotsman and I went over early to help mom and dad. I usually bake. My guy often cleans up while I begin the baking process. 

To say I was snarky is kind. I was bossing and nit picking everything the man was doing. He was also a mite bit off. My dad left to run errands and mom was sleeping in another room. 

We had already had words Thursday evening and that was resolved with him apologizing for his part. But I was just in that place….I know all the whys and everything. We are both justified in our angst. Outside and inside influences are making us crazy. There are no easy answers for us right now. Thank God we are both easy to forgive one another.

However the man was fed up. He turned to me after one snipe too many and stated, “you are getting spanked! Come here.” I said, “you can’t be serious, moms asleep and could hear.” He of course pointed out that she is almost completely deaf, and asleep! So I slowly walked over, he pulled me over and he quickly made his point! Nervous, I tried to get up laughing and ouching, we heard a voice from the other room! “Is someone knocking at the door?” YIKES!!! LOL!

The man says, “No I was just taking care of something!” Sheesh!!

I have to say both of us felt better!

Later my parents left with my brother taking mom to the doctors. Before we left I was going to make them dinner. I may have started to stress again….

My Scotsman calls me into the living room, once again stating I need a spanking. I said, “Really? You already spanked me.” His response was that I needed more! He sat on the couch pointed at his lap saying, “over.” I complied and he pulled me into him and began vigorously! THIS TIME HE became distracted! I knew when he said, “God I LOVE spanking you!” This time he wanted a different ‘response’ from me! My Scotsman asked if we could venture upstairs for a little afternoon fun! I was adamant that sort of thing not happen in my parents’ house! I was not comfortable! “Let me finish their dinner honey then we can go home,” I placated the frisky man!

He was not to be thwarted. He came behind me as I stood next to the stove. His big arms surrounded me, hands wandering freely. I kept giggling and scooting as far as he would let me. Not to be denied he guided me into the dining room and bent me over the table!!! He defrocked my lower half and spanked and acted as if…'ahem'…….I quickly jumped away pulling up my clothes and……

Walked to the kitchen, finished the cooking, cleaned up-- saying, “LETS GO HOME!”

No, no, this is not the end! 

We arrived home prepared for an empty house. Alas, a phone call that left me frustrated, upset and in tears. The Scotsman was unhappy as well. 

His solution….. “Right! In the bedroom!” Once again I found myself bottoms up!

Boy did we have fun after the “HEAT-UP, and then warm-up!

That evening we had plans for a wonderful get together.
It was a very late night but worth losing a little sleep!

Sunday morning rolls around and we decide to attend church. On the way renewed frustration regarding yesterdays phone call caused discord. I begin defending and saying what I believe….not happily, but not disrespectfully! He is adamant about his point of view. I am just as unyielding. Even so, we always come to an eventual solution.

The man drops me off to park the car. I wait for him at the bottom of an enclosed stairway, which leads to the church. As we ascend the stairs he starts swatting!

“Hey,” I whisper as he grins! He still swats every couple of stairs! I inform him that someone will HEAR, between gritted teeth. I am about to stop and he smiles and we walk the last few steps up the stairway. 

In church he takes my hand, as I reach for him and we both lean into one another. No words were necessary this time. We are always going to be okay.


HOWEVER MY BOTTOM WAS SORE!

Thanks for reading!
Minelle

29 comments:

  1. Sorry you two are going through such a rough time Minelle...hope your mom is doing better now. LOL Your Scotsman sure does know how to settle you down doesn't he...the only thing is, he should probably give you a barn burner or two with the paddle...would settle you down more and save his hand. ;) Love the pic! You are such a wonderful artist!

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Hey ya Cat! That man does have a knack! He was pretty vigilant! It helped us though! Hey, if my bottom is targeted--his hand can hurt a little!
      Mom is status quo! Some day are good...others sad...
      Thanks for complimenting my wee sketch!

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  2. Oh heck Minelle, I'm so sorry for the stress you two are going through right now! Hope things settle down so your bottom gets a bit of a break. Any chance the two of you can sneak away for a cozy winter weekend alone. No kids, no parents, no phones or computers. Psst...no clothes...Umm just sayin' Something tells me your Scotsman would like that!

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    1. Thanks Clara. Stress right now seems to be a daily thing, but this will pass.
      My bottom will get a break now since he is away on a job for quite a while!
      Maybe when he returns in a few weeks we can celebrate my coming birthday in a special way!! LOL

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  3. M,
    Your Scotsman is a natural born spanker. He knows the benefits and rewards from taking care of business. Great post,
    Meredith

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    1. Meredith, hi. I tell the man he is a bonefied spanko!
      He readily admits....(most of the time) that we both benefit from me getting a 'skelping.'

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  4. Hi Minelle, I'm so sorry you and your Scotsman are going through such a stressful time. I hope things settle somewhat soon. Wow, your Scotsman really does know how to settle you and maintain harmony between you doesn't he.

    Love the drawing. I wish I had half your talent!

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Hi Roz! Yes that man does seem to get it most of the time. I think he picks up more on my irritability, which is a signal I am not quite right. Usually I am a bubbly person.
      Thank you for the compliment Roz. I wish I had more time for these drawings!

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  5. Oh Minelle, what a couple of days! I am as sore as you today :(
    Love the drawing, sorry that you are having such a stressful time of it at the moment
    love Jan,xx

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    1. Hi Jan! That soreness can be disconcerting. I am usually not expecting it the next day. It rarely happens to me!
      Stress....is here for a while!
      Thanks. I am happy you enjoyed the drawing!

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  6. Oh Minelle, I am so sorry that life keeps pushing you around, at least emotionally. I know the feeling. It isn't fun. Thank goodness your Scotsman isn't taking this laying down. Well I suppose he is sitting down, and you are laying down! LOL

    love
    willie

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    1. Hi Wilma! He is definitely sitting when I am over....sometimes I am bent and he is standing! LOL.
      Life will be easier eventually, I do believe that. I just need to weather the hard times!

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  7. Love your drawing....but am so sorry that life is not being kind to you at the moment. Your Scotsman sure does know how to help the two of you get to a better place,..and to find some....ummm...activities that i am sure takes your mind off the troubles, at least for a while.
    hugs abby

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    1. Hi Abby!
      Glad you love my drawing!
      Life isn't always kind, but then there are many, many times that I feel so blessed!
      I'm going to need to wait for more 'activities' since the man is away working!

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  8. Certainly sounds like a great weekend for the most part. Being sore always makes me smile and feel mellow. I know he'll be working for a while, but I hope he keeps this up when he's home!

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    1. Hi PK! Yes you have it. The soreness just makes you relax and mellow! I hope when he returns that we 'connect' right away. Unfortunately there is this jockeying that goes on. Honeymoon phase first, then a bit of conflict.....then back to normal! Whatever that is!
      Hope he does as well!

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  9. Minelle, that was quite a weekend! I love your sketch. You are a very talented artist.

    Hugs,
    Hermione

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    1. Hi Hermione! It was quite a weekend! I think it was good though!
      Thank you for the compliment. I love drawing these. I peruse the internet for all manner of ideas! LOL

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  10. Minelle,

    I am sorry you are both having a stressful time just now. I love how your Scotsman took care of you.

    Another fab drawing.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Hi Ya Ronnie! Yea stress is stinky, but hopefully things will calm soon!
      The man does know a bit about 'calming' this feisty lady!
      I am glad you love the drawing! I am working on more 'Fab' drawings that I hope will be enjoyed! As soon as I get more time.....

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  11. Sorry you are having such distress, but your Scotsman knows how to solve the problems.

    Love your sketch.

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    1. Hi Leigh! Life does go through a series of times that challenge us. However I feel like it will get better soon. My honey is a gentle soul that always loves me the way I need....WELL mostly, lets be real! Sometimes he can be a pain!
      I do love him though!

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  12. I love the way your Scotsman took care of you - even in your parent's kitchen. Sorry that things were so stressful, but I'm glad that you two get through it all together, and still holding hands. Sweet.
    hugs,
    Cali

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    1. Hi Cali! Yes we will always come back together holding hands! That is real life right?
      The kitchen was funny...but kinda disconcerting! It did help though!
      Thank you for loving my drawing!

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  13. Oh! And yes - I love your sketch too!!

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  14. sorry that life is challenging you and that you are going through such difficult times. I am glad your Scotsman knows how to take care of that stress and that the tension between the two of you does not last. Thinking of you and sending hugs. Love the sketch :-)

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    1. Hi Terps! My Scotsman does know something about stress relief! He has definitely gotten better at seeing it and helping me decompress. These last several years in particular!
      I am glad to get your hugs and that you like my drawing!

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  15. Sorry for the stress but sounds like he knew what you both needed. (And it sounded like fun too.) Love the sketch.

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    1. Hi Zoe! Yes it was good all around! He knows what to do, or he figures it out as he moves along! The fact that he tries, well that is what matters!
      Glad you enjoyed the sketch!

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