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Thursday, March 5, 2015

Questions??? And our Anniversary!



I hear that March is Question time. I/we are not very interesting, but if anyone has a question I/we will try to answer them honestly!

Tuesday was our anniversary. We have been married 24 years. I woke up to a wonderful loving card with 24 chocolates attached. My Scotsman is definitely a romantic. Anyway, I started to reminisce about our wedding day. I don’t know about you all but it’s often the crazy mishaps that make our memories special!

Here are a few snippets I consider memory makers!
I was determined to put a personal twist on our wedding day! I made our wedding invitations. They were very different, and from my heart. I drew a single rose in a stylized technique. The colors were soft grey and a dark rose. But...... Ask me where an original copy is? Yep…don’t know! You would think I would have it preserved and saved. Sigh.....

Our ceremony was just lovely. We were married in a beautiful traditional church. We chose the music, readings etc. What I remember so well besides the Piper....was The song 'All I ask of You, from Phantom Of The Opera. I had a few talented family members who sang and harmonized perfectly.


But........Then again.....

We almost couldn’t fit all 325 people at the hall…(yes you read correctly 325).....My Scotsman’s mother KEPT inviting more people! Oh the ‘discussions’ that ensued because of her interference! Every time she'd see a FRIEND...we had another guest!! BTW.....we paid for our wedding!

My dress was very romantic with a high neck. It had a see through lace heart shaped bodice. There were beautiful pearls down the back. It looked romantic and sexy. Guess what happened after wearing and dancing in that dress all night long? When the dress came off I had a ring around my neck! Yes, a red- rust, rubbed neck as we embarked on our honeymoon to a warmer climate….I tried to wear a scarf, didn’t work! Ugh, the looks I had….But the gazes my Scotsman had were worse! LOL! 


Not a very auspicious beginning!

AND ........Icing on the cake here!........

A few days before our wedding I went for a bikini wax. It was only the second time I had gotten waxed. A woman at work kept insisting I would JUST LOVE IT! Well I guess I would have if she hadn’t burned the inside of my thighs all the way up close to the lady bits. An OUCH!! That kept on giving! So bathing suit action wasn’t an easy option! I was brown red down to my knees! Yes really!
Of course more happened to help us remember our honeymoon in glowing terms!

We arrived at our destination and went to rent a car! 

Ummm…..when I handed my license to go along with the credit card we brought…. They said my license was expired and I had no other form of Id. In those days you had to show ID with your credit card. If the Scotsman could have spanked me then…..I’d have started out our honeymoon with a beet red behind. He was very unhappy! ( I am a bit of a procrastinator.)


Good thing we were able to get a car anyway and DARN he would be the only one to drive! Oops!

We stayed at a very old historical bed and breakfast. The city was experiencing  colder weather than normal! Unfortunately the heat wasn’t very efficient! Actually there wasn’t any heat! Regrettably, the water pressure was awful and filling a bath took about a half hour! ARGH! We were troupers and the Scotsman and I were determined to make it all work! Both of us could fit in the large claw foot bath…..but it was freezing cold by the time we were covered by the water……shivering, teeth chattering! NOT ROMANTIC! We gave up and went another route!

I think the funniest part was staying in a family cottage blocks from the ocean. It was in a terrible state of repair. Before we could relax a thorough cleaning was necessary!  Ugh.... spider eggs  were a part of that too! Shiver!

Did I tell you the man is a saint? 

(One of these days I will share his crazy stuff, we are a match for sure!)

We did build so many wonderful memories then and all through the years. I think the times that are fraught with mishaps are what make us smile the most!
Happy Anniversary my darling Scotsman!

Thanks for reading,

Minelle

31 comments:

  1. Minelle-I'm glad you have such wonderful memories and you are still together even after all that happened.

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    1. Thanks Sunny! I guess I fell in love with his accent...the rest is part of our history!

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  2. Wishing you two a happy belated anniversary. May you have many, many more.

    Thank you for sharing some of the snippets from your wedding and honeymoon...why am I not surprised? LOL Looking forward to hearing about your Scotsman's crazy stuff. ;)

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. I don't know --WHY are you NOT surprised!
      The man has some kooky stuff for sure!

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  3. Happy belated Anniversary to you both! Enjoyed reading about your wedding and honeymoon. The mishaps can create the most wonderful memories :) I love the card and 24 chocolates and hope you had a wonderful day :)

    My questions :

    Do you have hobbies besides your amazing drawing?

    What is your favourite implement and what is your Scotsman's favourite?

    How did you come to ttwd? (Apologies I'f you have already covered this)

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Thanks Roz!
      I have lots of interests besides drawing. My guy and I enjoy biking in the nicer weather.
      My favorite implement is his hand. He also said the hand since he can feel it as well as me! But I must confess that I enjoy the idea of the hairbrush although not the reality!
      My Scotsman spanked me early on and although very mild he has always swatted and threatened my behind. I always read the bodice busters and Harlequin Romances where a spanking often figured in the romance! I guess I finally acknowledged it more openly--- nearly 5 years ago!

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  4. Aww...Happy 24th....loved hearing about the mishaps...or as i prefer to think of them...the memory makers. Sometimes you just have to laugh and go with the flow.

    Do you think you will do something special for your 25th?
    When did you start with your pencil drawings...were you very young? Have you ever taken art lessons?
    You won a dream trip...where are you off to?
    hugs abby

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    1. Hi Abby! For our 25th he wants to go to Scotland. I guess we would need to make some serious money for that to happen....so we will see!
      I have always drawn. I have memories of being around 4 and sitting with mom as she taught me. I took art all through HS and college....including my Masters. Although that was not what my Masters is in.
      My dream trip would be for my guy to go to Scotland and then for us to go Australia. He has always wished to go. However I would enjoy out West and England, Ireland,France,Wales, Germany.......

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  5. Hope you had a wonderful wedding anniversary. You certainly have lots of lovely memories. Wedding dresses in those days were sooooo demure! Mine had a high neck too.

    Alrighty - on to some questions.

    Be honest - did your Scotsman wear a kilt for your wedding, and if so, did he wear anything underneath? My highland cousin says he never wears a stitch under his kilt, but frankly, it is not the sort of thing I would want to check up on.

    You say your Scotsman is a romantic (sigh), but can you remember what's the most romantic thing he has ever done for you?

    What method of transport did you use to travel to and from the Church?

    Hugs
    Ami

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    1. Hi Ami!
      Nope my Scotsman did not wear a kilt. He has worn one before. He says that you do not wear anything underneath! It is itchy but freeing! LOL
      Gosh I have to get back to you on the most romantic thing he has ever done. However I will tell you that the love he shows and how he thinks about me...is hard to beat!
      We traveled in a limo. Our guests had the option of riding in a school bus from the church to the reception since it was around an hours drive between.

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  6. It sounds like a wonderful wedding - and what ever happened, it worked! Give your Scotsman a congratulatory kiss from me!

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  7. Happy Be-lated anniversary. Ah all those little mishaps certainly do make for entertaining memories don't they?

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    1. Hi Wilma! I do think the crazy stuff makes for the best memories, and sets up real expectations of love! LOL

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  8. I hope you both had a wonderful anniversary. Lovely to read about your wedding and honeymoon and look forward to reading about your Scotsman's crazy stuff.

    Question,,,,

    You are a talented artist. Was art your favourite subject at school, if not, what was?

    Do you have a favourite colour in knickers?

    What's your favourite Spring Flower,

    If money and time was no object where would your Scotsman take you on holiday?

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Hi Ronnie!
      Art was my number one favorite! I loved Literature also!
      My favorite color in Knickers....Blue and red...peachy lace...probably every color!
      I absolutely love Lilacs and Lilly of The Valley!
      My Scotsman would love to go to Scotland and Australia, however as I stated above I'd like to visit England, Ireland, France...out West here....The list goes on!

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  9. Happy anniversary to you! That’s wonderful. I loved to read about your wedding and what happened during your honeymoon.

    Questions:

    What is most important for you in a friendship?

    What in your life are you most grateful for?

    hugs

    Nina

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    1. Hi Ni Na!
      Gosh probably, love, sharing and acceptance, giving to one another. Loyalty is important but its through an understanding that you are different and will not always see eye to eye! I think it is so many wonderful things that you grow into with special people!
      I am so grateful for so many things! My husband, children, family and friends!!

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  10. Hi Minelle, oh this made me laugh, what a start!! Happy Anniversary to you both.
    Questions, How long have you been doing ttwd? Have you got any of your spanking art on your walls, are you that brave?
    love Jan,xx

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    1. Hi Jan! Like I said to Roz,I think it has always been there in a mild way for all of our lives together. Many years there was nothing....but in the last several quite a bit. My acceptance may have unleashed the beast!

      NO Way am I brave enough to put up my spanking art! I do have many of my pieces up on the wall of the non-spanking variety!

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    2. I would put it up, it is so good!xx

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  11. M,,
    Sorry, I am late to the party. Traveling will do that!
    So are you able to watch Outlander over there? I sure hope so!
    Meredith

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  12. Hi Meredith! I live here in the States. My husband is originally from Scotland. He came as a young adult. His immediate family are here as well.
    But he is a Scottish Man!
    We enjoy Outlander together!

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  13. Enjoyed reading the questions and your answers. Thanks for answering mine.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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  14. Gosh I'm so late :( Happy Anniversary!! What a beginning Minelle. I just love your stories. Somehow I just picture you smiling and laughing with all the stories you tell us. I hope the romance of your anniversary had less mishaps than the honeymoon.

    Does your Scotsman have a nickname for you?

    If you had one day to spend any way you wanted to...where would you be and what would you do?

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    1. Hi Clara! I do laugh about my crazy mishaps. I love to make fun of myself.
      My Sctsman shortens my name and once in awhile calls me by a nickname my brother called me as a toddler. My brother couldn't pronounced name correctly so it became a cute nickname.
      Although he often bellows, 'woman!'

      As to where I'd like to be if I had one day to choose....I think it would depend on life circumstances, but I'd spend it with my loved ones!

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  15. Happy Belated Anniversary Minelle!
    I so appreciate your sense of humor when you share real life stories. :D
    hugs,
    Cali

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    1. Thank you Cali! You are sweet. I try to see the fun side of all my crazy things. I'm not always successful, but I try!

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  16. Such happy memories. It is the "mishaps" and laughter and love that make these moments so memorable and fun. :-) Hope you had a wonderful celebration. Hugs

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  17. Hi Terps! My memories are happy. I love thinking back and smiling! There is always love. The celebration was and is always perfect!

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