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Sunday, April 17, 2016

A Temporary Hiatus




 On the inside I feel like this!

I am sorry to say that I will be on a temporary hiatus for a bit of time, probably both blogging and reading! :( I know I am not always the most prompt of bloggers. Often you may not hear from me more than once a month. This will be slightly different. 

My Scotsman and I decided to help out his sister with some medical issues. This is not an easy decision since she is not a very trustworthy person. Knowing all that we are going to face and deal with.....we are moving forward. (FOR NOW)

Unfortunately we already have to lay down some serious, "my house my rules" talks. Between yesterday and today we have had to amp them up quite a bit. This woman is 54 years old and acts as if she is emotionally stunted at a selfish 13! She is manipulative and already talked my guys mom into giving her prescription meds and her oxygen. We are going to use a lock box and dole out the meds to his mom per day. Ugh... we may end his sisters "help" if she can't comply. We knew we were in for some rough times, but not sure we anticipated it starting "Bang On!" 

Of course my Scotsman is leaving for a couple of weeks.....so he is the one who gets tasked with talking to them before he leaves later today.

We both are fine and trying to keep our sense of humor above all. It helps that we are both on the same page with this. 

On a humorous note I was told yesterday I needed spanked and he managed with me resisting since his sister and mom were in the next bedroom. We laughed so hard....and then ended our short playful encounter by going to a lovely dinner party. 

We had plans to finish our playful encounter with some delightful loving......that didn't happen until early this morning!

What a way to wake-up! 

Until I return,

Minelle

 

14 comments:

  1. Ugh, the SIL situation sounds awful! I hope you all get through this time alright. Sending good wishes your way. Hope you and your Scotsman can find some pieces of time together during all this.

    Take good care of each other. Hope to see you back some day!

    Hugs,
    Clara

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  2. Oh my...you have taken on a LOT!!! If you need an ear to vent....I have two...LOL...sending lots of hugs and positive energy...
    hugs abby

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  3. Oh Minelle, you know I am thinking of you at this difficult time. Fingers crossed that every one cooperates with you. If it gets too bad, hop on a plane and come and stay with us in England, you would be so welcome
    love Jan, xx

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  4. I'm going to miss you - even though I'm going to be in touch as much as possible. Stick to your guns and stick hard. Hopefully she will either comply or get pissed enough to leave!

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  5. Minelle,
    Hang in there. We are hear for you in a internet kind of way. We are on your side. Praying that adults behave like adults.
    Meredith

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  6. wishing you strength. know I am here for you. love and hugs :-)

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  7. Hang in there sweet lady...you know I'm here for you...anything you need...day or night! Sending lots of prayers and positive energy your way. Oh and if you need help, maybe we can get together a contingency to come kick some tush! ;)

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

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  8. It's so generous of you to help out your SIL, knowing she's a nightmare. Wishing you lots of luck.
    Rosie xx

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  9. Hi Minelle, oh gosh, sounds like you have taken on a lot! It is so wonderful of you and your Scotsman to help his sister. Hang in there. Wishing you the best and hoping everyone behaves and cooperates.

    Hugs
    Roz

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  10. Minelle,

    You are one lovely lady helping your SIL knowing what's she's like. You know I am thinking of you. Don't forget to take care of yourself.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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  11. You need lots of friends to get you through this. As far as pain in the ass SIL awards go, I thought I had that competition down. Sam's sister can spoil my day quicker than anyone. But your SIL sounds worse. I feel your pain, Minelle. Hunker down and take care of yourself.

    Ella Commiserating and Sending Hugs xxx

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  12. Good luck, Minelle. The next few weeks won't be easy for you.

    Hugs,
    Hermione

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  13. Thanks everyone for all your supportive well wishes.

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  14. Gosh you have a lot going on at the moment Minelle. Good luck! Sending positive vibes your way for a happy ending.
    Hugs Lindy

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