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Sunday, March 23, 2014

Cinnamon oil again?? AND answers FINALLY!

     
  1.  So YES I did try it again..... 2. NOT on my BUTT.....
    I was getting ready to go out and was looking at my lips.
    They have all kinds of products one can use to plump up your lips. As I was putting on my make-up I thought my lips looked sad....so I had a brilliant (NOT) idea to rub on a bit of cinnamon oil on them.

     I will not do that again!

    Here is what it says in regards to cinnamon oil on your lips!

    Invest in a good lip plumper that has MaxiLip or hyaluronic acid as an ingredient rather than an irritant like cinnamon oil (which will be painful and only temporarily swell your lips). Yep!

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    I am not around much these days (SORRY TO ALL OF YOU I AM BEHIND IN READING) since I am so stressed with my job lately but....

    We had fun going dancing last night. My Scotsman loves to tease me as I do him. I get a bit playful and feisty when I have a couple drinks. He gives me smiles and at times playful suggestions about calming down. Mind you he loves when I am having a good time. We are often holding hands and leaning in to one another.

    However he always makes a comment about taking me over his knee regardless of where we are.

     I always push him.

     He may even begin to pull me across his knee....and stop as my eyes get wide and I think he actually might do it.

    Last night he laughingly pointed to the floor under the table saying, 'hey look honey there is a 50 dollar bill on the floor.'

     Hmmmmmmm I realized what he was suggesting....If I looked closely I would have voluntarily placed myself across my DARLING'S lap.

     Ha- not stupid here! He is such a kidder!
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    SO....NOW TO YOUR  QUESTIONS..........



    1. Wilma Rubble asked.....
    I have a tough one....." What is your favourite book?"

     I have to say I loved, How Green Was My Valley by Richard Liewellyn. (Old fashioned story of love and life in Wales)

     I also loved The Mists of Avalon by Marion Zimmer Bradley (Not a book about submissive women)


  2. I'll give the question thing a shot: Is there an event in the past year that really touched you? Perhaps something that your Scotsman did or that you did? If so, why? 

     I think my Scotsman having emergency surgery again. For some reason these horrible experiences highlight our love for each other, make us slow down and realize what is truly important.
  3. You won an all expense paid vacation...where do you go?
    Where do you see yourself in 10 years?

     Your first question is very hard! I would enjoy so many places. I enjoy visiting towns, states and countries that are different from where I am now.  Some places are....out west in the USA, Austrailia, the Caribbean and anywhere overseas!!
    In ten years I hope my kids are happy satisfied with their lives, I am working, hubby and I are thinner and healthy......and traveling free from financial worries!

  4. Question, do the kids ever react when he swats your bottom? 

     I think they are so used to it that they just see it as our love.

  5. If you could choose anyplace else to live, where would it be?

     Where my family is. However if family wasn't a consideration.....a small town in America or traveling like you do for a part of each year!
  6. Same questions as abby and Sunny! Answered-- lol!

  7. If you could meet a famous artist which one would you choose? 

     Mary Cassette, and Vincent Van Gogh!
  8. Who would you want to play the role of you in a movie?

     Claudette Colbert If it was long ago! I also think that the actress in Mama Mia, Julie Walters captured (in looks) and a bit of my personality in that movie.

  9. I want to ask you my question - Would you two ever consider attending a spanking party that people host at different locations around the country?

     I don't think so, but being around other DD/TTWD couples at a gathering would be great!

  10. Okay, Minelle, I have a question for you. Which is your favourite spanking implement and why?

     I like his hand, a cute leather like strap thing I received from Sunny and maybe a smaller light plastic plexi cutting board we received from Cat. I like the wood paddle we have from Blondie's shop....but over my jeans and NOT HARD! Some of the other ones just hurt too much too fast! (like a wooden spoon someone sent....or a bath brush)


     I KNOW IT'S SUPPOSED TO HURT.....LOL

    This was so much fun. Thank you for your questions!

    Please have patience with me I may get a chance to catch up with everyone sometime next week!

Saturday, March 8, 2014

Questions and MAYBE Answers!



Questions and MAYBE answers! Anniversary quote, and a little challenge!

First, I must say thank you for all your lovely Anniversary wishes!

Unfortunately I had a bit of a bug on our special day; however we spent it perpendicular to one another. My Scotsman was sitting on a leather loveseat two feet away from me and I was snuggled under blankets, lying prone on the couch.

We have this little thing we do with each other……Get your minds out of the gutter! Or not....!

It is a question with only one right answer and most of the time it is because one of us has driven the other to distraction. He may have forgotten something important or I became a little intense.

 I realize most of you can’t imagine me a little intense!

If it is my Scotsman asking the question, he usually begins with a giant bear hug kissing my neck, asking,

‘how much do you love me?’ 

I may be irritated, making a bit of a face and respond by answering,

 ‘even when you make me crazy…..I love you…grrrrrrrrr!’

 After my response, usually his cuddling is followed up with a forceful smack (or two or three)…… to my behind!

On our Anniversary I asked him if he loved me even when I drive him bonkers and he wishes to strangle me. His reply was immediate,

‘I never want to strangle you, maybe throw you over my knee………!’ (The Anniversary quote of our day!)

He is soooooooo romantic!!!
 
We had a good laugh!

I know Wilma is beginning a challenge to get us healthy and fit….I am going to try. That is my goal…..LOL.---- Try to get healthy and fit! Hmmmm….. Yes, it is very nonspecific! Go with me. My life is too challenging these days. I cannot commit to anything more! LOL.

So now……drum roll…since it is question and answer month…..ask away and MAYBE….lol…..I will answer!

Seriously, I will try and be truthful and not evasive!

Thank you my friends for reading here!

Monday, March 3, 2014

Married 23 years!



                        

If I get married, I want to be very married.
Audrey Hepburn

Today My Scotsman and I will be married for 23 years.
The strange thing is we both almost forgot this important date. My guy is a total romantic and never forgets…ever.

I think we just had too much on our mind. What is important is that our love is strong and we remembered before the day passed us by! 

However I would like to celebrate what it really means to be together or married through thick and thin. We are young-ins compared to my parents, who have been married 54 years.

What is love? (written by Harleena Singh)

It is the total surrender of your heart to another person when you have that confidence that they will treat your heart better than you will.



Love feels good, not bad. It should want to make you a better person, not lead you to do something damaging. (excluding spanking lol.) It makes you glow and soar in spirit.



Love knows no limits, no boundaries, and no limitations. It is unconditional, limitless, and always flowing. We can’t avoid getting hurt in love, but it is worth any hurt to love truly.

I watch my mother and father weather the devastation that Alzheimer’s can wreck upon the life and love you know and remember.

Waking up to your sweetheart but going to bed with a stranger.

I watch my father comfort and care for the most important person in his life. His tenderness when she is scared makes me cry but proud. The compassion and devotion he has for her is all encompassing.

I watch my mom still try and care for him even when she isn’t sure what to do. We see all the times she fights to hold onto her past and present. Her love for my dad is her world. She looks for him when he is gone from her side for a brief moment. She tries so hard to be strong and he helps her!


That is POWER of TRUE enduring love, and what I hope to continue sharing with my Scotsman.

Here are some thoughtful quotes:

 If you are blessed, you are blessed, whether you are married or single.

Greta Garbo

 Sexiness wears thin after a while and beauty fades, but to be married to a person who makes you laugh every day, ah, now that's a real treat.

(person is my word…I think anyone should be able to marry if they wish.)

Joanne Woodward

“True love is born from understanding.” ~ The Buddha

Sunday, February 9, 2014

Spanked On The Dance Floor!




                                  

Well swats…Really!

I know when life is getting too busy for me!
It is often when I start screwing up. (Like when I wear clothes inside-out) I forget important commitments, never people, but activities or crucial promises of my time.

Each day begins at the crack of dawn…and I am pulled many ways….like everyone else I know-- but….

Sometimes….

Maybe I forget to teach my night class…Yep happened twice in the not too distant past! ( To be honest the students cancelled twice on me so these were add-ons)

Maybe I forget to contact someone to fire the kiln at a class I teach. (Sigh) My day is so packed this happens often, and then it is too late to fix the problem.

I have to use my own money to order supplies because my time is so limited I need to hurry and get it immediately, instead of anticipating my needs…Therefore I need to wait for reimbursement…(If I do not misplace the receipt)

And….maybe I don’t want to take the car in to have the fluids topped off because that is his job…..So I drive without wind shield wiper fluid… Not again…. I know it is DANGEROUS…LOL

So to get to the point…My Scotsman always swats and tosses me over his knee when I am snarky…etc. But often the stress is still there! Surprised?

Friday we were going to meet a couple to have dinner and drinks at an Irish pub. Entertainment and dancing were on the agenda! So were TWO Martinis! Ahem….After one drink before food my guy noticed my…FIESTINESS! I was just relaxing and feeling GOOD! 

Dinner was ordered…..and I ordered another Martini….I think this is where he threatened to turn me over his knee right then and there…smiling with a "certain" look in his eye.

I said… “No you won’t” 

He said, “You taking bravery pills?”

I smiled…..Yes I did…nicely though….

We ate dinner and I nursed my second Martini. (see?)

The music began and I was bursting to dance. (Stress relief..here I come) We made our way to the floor. He took my right hand and grasped it up near his shoulder, his right arm around my waist and a hand on my back.

The song was one that many may dance alone or close together! I wanted to (and did) wiggle (To the faster beat) against his slower LEAD (to the slower beat).

He whispered, “Come closer and slow down…, let me set the pace.”

I didn’t really listen….No I wasn't hearing him...

SMACK! His hand came down on my bottom! 

Holy cow! I looked up and around! No one seemed shocked!

Sheesh! I was red faced and maybe slowed down immediately!

He always surprises me!

We finished our dance in harmony!