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Monday, September 14, 2015

Are all spanked butts beautiful?






I have been thinking about a woman's body lately. (Sorry men) The idea of embracing our female differences is all over Facebook lately.

What is the definition of beauty. How do women feel beautiful with our bodies as they are? I recognize the difference in the ideal personification now, throughout history, and how we perceive that epitome of perfection in ourselves.

In respect to those of us that lay ourselves naked across a spankers lap, how does our multitude of insecurities regarding our bodies impact the experience? Do we worry about the rejection of our imperfections, or are our human flaws what make us beautiful?

I have an old anatomy for the artist drawing book and have used it as an aide in drawing the figure. Looking at some of the female forms I decided to use one as a model---altered some to experiment. I drew the woman having an imperfect figure. Do we still find the picture of a young lady with a red behind attractive or erotic if she isn't young, fit and perfect? 

I struggle with this in myself because I want perfection in my appearance, even if that is difficult. Do I hold others to my high standard? Absolutely not. I see loveliness in everyone. But a fantasy is a fantasy after all.

I enjoy drawing both the perfect and not so ideal depiction of a woman. But do I evoke the same emotions from you the viewer? Sorry if the image isn't drawn perfectly!

My story is that this lovely lady did a bit too much drinking the night before and is suffering the after affects! ;-\

On another note....I am low gear, and behind on so much. Sorry if I haven't read you all in a timely manner. My Scotsman has been home for quite awhile waiting for his next job. Unfortunately today he was called for one which will mean he will travel out of State, and for quite some time. 

We just plod along! 

Thanks for reading!

Minelle

34 comments:

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    1. Wonder if the post made more sense after I corrected my faux pas? A title but no post? I am a dork!

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    1. I bet you thought I was a bit nutty? No post, just a title! Now it makes sense.

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    1. You wondered about my absent post...huh? Have no clue how i did that. Now I feel it is rectified!

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  4. Yes! Mine definitely looks better when it is all red and rosy lol.
    Hope you get time to catch up while your Scotsman is away
    love Jan,xx

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    1. Jan, I hope mine looks better too!
      I will have more time to read....I think! School is nutty!

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    1. Roz, We love looking at all bums I believe! The red ones just add a bit of extra!

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    1. I thought you'd agree DelFonte! There is nothing like a bit of color!

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  7. Well so far it is unanimous .....I used to hate being naked, but Master changed all that....Sorry to hear hubby is going to be away for so long...good to hear from you.
    hugs abby

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    1. abby, hi! Yea I have been missing in action here. Too much going on....
      I think it is wonderful that Master has helped you appreciate and embrace being naked.

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    1. Lindy, I have a feeling we ladies all agree. We embrace differences don't we!

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  9. Yes, for sure. Loved this picture, Minelle. Your drawings are so soft; they remind me of dreams.

    Ella

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    1. Ella, that is a great compliment! I guess they are like dreams....since they are based off of fantasy or reality changed!

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  10. Oh yes. Lovely picture Minelle.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Thanks Ronnie! We do love a bum that is red! The imagery is so evocative of expectations.

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  11. Yes, all spanked bottoms are beautiful to me, because of what that image represents to me.

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    1. Hi sub hub! You are so right! The image represents so very much to many of us. We incorporate it into our own experiences!

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  12. Yes, and rosy red butts look healthy too! Awesome picture, with a great background story. :)
    I am sorry that your Scotsman will be away for a while and hope that this time will pass quickly for you.

    hugs

    Nina

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    1. Hi Ni Na! Yes a rosy red butt does look healthy!
      Ah yes...that story! ;-)

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  13. Definitely a yes from me as well. :D

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    1. Julia hi! Yes from everyone so far! That makes me happy. I kinda wonder sometimes if we want a representation of pure fantasy, reality or both.

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  14. Oh the thoughts....are all the other imperfect bodies spanked and not spanked beautiful. Yes, all bodies are beautiful. Until a mirror comes into the picture. Why is that so difficult?

    Hmm, the reason she got spanked. Sounds like a story, Minelle.

    Beautiful picture!
    Clara

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    1. I hate looking at a mirror below my waist Clara! I never think anyone else looks bad...just hyper critical of myself!
      That story sounds like a plan....of course I may need to add some reality to the 'story.'
      Thanks!

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  15. Oh, yes. And your drawing allows her beauty to shine. :-) I think it is easier to see others is a softer light than ourselves. Why is that we can appreciate another's beauty for all it is and yet when we look in a mirror the reflections shows us only the flaws. One of my hopes is to learn to accept the beauty within me at every stage of being, and of of course a pink bottom is always beautiful to me in my fantasies. :-) Hugs

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  16. I agree Terps, we are so much harder on ourselves aren't we?
    What kinds of things are you doing to see the beauty we all see in you?
    Thanks!

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  17. That body you have drawn looks pretty darned perfect to me. I think everything about my body is horrible these days. I should love to be pear-shaped like the lady in the picture. My bottom has sagged with the years, and never was very voluptuous. Sigh. I think that as far as bodies go, the grass is always greener on the other side. But if we are talking 'nude studies', have you noticed how Botticelli women were so completely different? And the men still loved them and lusted after them. So next time you are OTK and worrying about the view you are presenting - just remember that he married you cause he loved you then, and stayed married to you because he loves you now. At least, that's what I try to tell myself. LOL!

    Many hugs
    Ami

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    1. Hi Ami, I was thinking about Botticelli while drawing this. I recognize that I didn't make her as imperfect as I wished. But....she still isn't model thin.
      I am sending a message to your man. He needs to stop you from all your self deprecation!
      My Scotsman does love me the way I am...I am just not thrilled with me! :(

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  18. Good gravy Minelle...if you think the body you drew looks bad, I can't begin to imagine what I would look like to you. I didn't seem to be as hard on myself when I was in a relationship until my ex and then the man I dated after him both cheated on me. Matthew had a few things to say regarding my attitude but now...

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

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    1. Good Gravy Cat you are just as bad as Ami! I know that this post probably triggered self doubt in many, but I meant it to unify us in our perceptions.
      I think all of us unanimously agree that a lovely red butt is beautiful! :-))

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