Spanked four times in two days!

                 This past weekend was quite a spanking affair!
              (I did a quick sketch to show the spanking! LOL)

 I believe I was spanked 4 times in two days and 3 times all on Saturday! I can still feel the muscle soreness.

Unfortunately things have been stressful for the Scotsman and me! We have both been on edge. Extenuating circumstances have added to our stress and ratcheted it from a standard 5 to a 20! Unfortunately we have had words. WE always get past them and hate being angry or upset with one another.

I have said it before. We do not do DD, at least not in the traditional sense. When I am out of control the Scotsman will reign me in. If he finds my attitude snippy, snarky and nasty, he attends to me with an adjustment, and I am a happy camper! That doesn’t mean I don’t feel his ire. His simple OTK moments are heartfelt….oops I mean bottom felt! But like our Jan, I “MOSTLY” come up smiling. It’s often a complete mood changer for me. Even with the sting!

He definitely gets something from spanking me. His mood improves as well. (snicker) For him there is another benefit as well…..OF THE ROMANTIC VARIETY!

On Friday night my mom fell. I found out on Saturday morning. Of course I was extremely worried. The Scotsman and I went over early to help mom and dad. I usually bake. My guy often cleans up while I begin the baking process. 

To say I was snarky is kind. I was bossing and nit picking everything the man was doing. He was also a mite bit off. My dad left to run errands and mom was sleeping in another room. 

We had already had words Thursday evening and that was resolved with him apologizing for his part. But I was just in that place….I know all the whys and everything. We are both justified in our angst. Outside and inside influences are making us crazy. There are no easy answers for us right now. Thank God we are both easy to forgive one another.

However the man was fed up. He turned to me after one snipe too many and stated, “you are getting spanked! Come here.” I said, “you can’t be serious, moms asleep and could hear.” He of course pointed out that she is almost completely deaf, and asleep! So I slowly walked over, he pulled me over and he quickly made his point! Nervous, I tried to get up laughing and ouching, we heard a voice from the other room! “Is someone knocking at the door?” YIKES!!! LOL!

The man says, “No I was just taking care of something!” Sheesh!!

I have to say both of us felt better!

Later my parents left with my brother taking mom to the doctors. Before we left I was going to make them dinner. I may have started to stress again….

My Scotsman calls me into the living room, once again stating I need a spanking. I said, “Really? You already spanked me.” His response was that I needed more! He sat on the couch pointed at his lap saying, “over.” I complied and he pulled me into him and began vigorously! THIS TIME HE became distracted! I knew when he said, “God I LOVE spanking you!” This time he wanted a different ‘response’ from me! My Scotsman asked if we could venture upstairs for a little afternoon fun! I was adamant that sort of thing not happen in my parents’ house! I was not comfortable! “Let me finish their dinner honey then we can go home,” I placated the frisky man!

He was not to be thwarted. He came behind me as I stood next to the stove. His big arms surrounded me, hands wandering freely. I kept giggling and scooting as far as he would let me. Not to be denied he guided me into the dining room and bent me over the table!!! He defrocked my lower half and spanked and acted as if…'ahem'…….I quickly jumped away pulling up my clothes and……

Walked to the kitchen, finished the cooking, cleaned up-- saying, “LETS GO HOME!”

No, no, this is not the end! 

We arrived home prepared for an empty house. Alas, a phone call that left me frustrated, upset and in tears. The Scotsman was unhappy as well. 

His solution….. “Right! In the bedroom!” Once again I found myself bottoms up!

Boy did we have fun after the “HEAT-UP, and then warm-up!

That evening we had plans for a wonderful get together.

It was a very late night but worth losing a little sleep!

Sunday morning rolls around and we decide to attend church. On the way renewed frustration regarding yesterdays phone call caused discord. I begin defending and saying what I believe….not happily, but not disrespectfully! He is adamant about his point of view. I am just as unyielding. Even so, we always come to an eventual solution.

The man drops me off to park the car. I wait for him at the bottom of an enclosed stairway, which leads to the church. As we ascend the stairs he starts swatting!

“Hey,” I whisper as he grins! He still swats every couple of stairs! I inform him that someone will HEAR, between gritted teeth. I am about to stop and he smiles and we walk the last few steps up the stairway. 

In church he takes my hand, as I reach for him and we both lean into one another. No words were necessary this time. We are always going to be okay.

HOWEVER MY BOTTOM WAS SORE!

Thanks for reading!
Minelle

Sentimental Saturday And A Birthday Spanking!

Sometimes when I am moody and cranky it takes me some time to resolve the reasons and process.

I have been struggling a little bit. Not serious life changing things. However unfortunately it is affecting my ability to carry on with some of my normal, relaxing, calming activities. In other words I am not drawing or reading much. I feel almost stagnated in my focus. I can be creative at work. I love the students. Yet, I am putting in so much emotional energy there, it makes me utterly exhausted. My desire also extends to helping my adult children as they navigate many of their life’s joys and difficulties. 

Every Saturday I spend several hours with my parents. Even when my mom has a bad day I adore spending time with them. Often my Scotsman comes with me. I am so appreciative of his support. He loves my parents and truly enjoys the time we have with them. Since he has been off work these past few months he often checks up on them during the week while I am at work. I can’t tell you what that means to me. Of course I do the same with his mom when she lives with us. 

Today though, I was struck once again at my guy’s gentle soul.

My mom’s Alzheimer’s has greatly progressed. Many times I am there while she sleeps, waking up slowly and often quite confused. Regularly a Saturday morning will find me making bread while my dad runs some errands. Mom and I will sometimes sing old songs like, Alexanders Ragtime Band or Dearie Do You Remember When…..Today my mom began asleep, but shortly thereafter joined us in the kitchen. I was making breakfast for hubby and mom….(even though she already ate earlier ;-))

Sometimes she gets the shakes in her arm and hand. The tremors frighten her and are uncomfortable. My dad will firmly and gently hold her hand in his until the shaking stops. When dad is gone we all hold moms hand until she feels comfortable. Often she asks where dad is every 5-10 minutes. She misses him whenever he is out of her sight.

I was flipping eggs when this happened to mom, and my loving Scotsman pushed his chair in front of mom to take her hand in his. She probably weighs all of 95 pounds, and is quite frail. His warm hand enveloped hers and made me almost tear up. Minutes later she smiled and said, “oh that was nice and warm!” 

He said, "Minelle has warm hands.....Then teasingly added--- warm hands cold heart!" (SO I would hear-- and of course laugh!)

Mom Said, "WATCH IT BUDDY!" Guess I was her favorite for that moment! LOL

Next mom noticed that all her necklaces and metals around her neck were tangled. I was buttering the toast. I looked up and My Scotsman was holding all of her chains and carefully untangling them.

There are times though that my darling can annoy the bejesus out of me even when I love him to BITS. The times he loudly proclaims he will put me over his knee…..and just in case I can’t hear his bellowing loud voice as well as everyone within a block radius--- he says it once again until I acknowledge in some way! (even cheekily) ;-)

I was irritated with him a bit later in the morn, he was intensely cleaning up a flooded plant….I was also mopping things up.

We shared words several times.

Later eating lunch with my parents I gave him the evil eye----my mom intercepted and said, “hey watch it, or I am going to dis-own you!” Sometimes she chastises me and says, “hey you better watch it.” I know who her new favorite is! LOL

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Oh--- on to his (mine) Birthday spanking!

We had a fantastic Birthday celebration for my darling Scotsman! He was the recipient of a sports jersey that literally almost made him cry!

Later in the evening our son went out with friends so we were able to move on to the adult portion of the evening.

I was told to lay myself across his knees while he sat up against the headboard of our bed. My Scotsman started spanking slowly and as he progressed a bit more intensely he laughingly said, “oops I lost my count, I need to start again!” He continued on harder, but stopping along the way to rub away the sting. Things began to progress naturally and we were fully engaged romantically. 

Guess what happened next?? 

If you said someone interrupted the ‘other’ birthday present….

You would be correct.

Our daughter called. Unfortunately we could not delay that call and needed to take it. 

Picture us sitting in various stages of undress in slightly compromising positions….while on speaker phone.

 Ugh!

The good thing is that we are pros at being interrupted and are able to once again jump right back in!

I think all in all that he enjoyed his Birthday Spanking, and so did I!

Thanks for reading,

Minelle

Spanked for being bossy?

I Know I have shared that as the oldest child I am VERY VERY BOSSY!

My Scotsman can only take so much before he is threatening my behind with dire consequences. Many times if we are at home he will just turn me upside down and happily spank away! Those smacks have a stinging quality that lasts for awhile!

I was testing his patience this weekend!
 
This past Friday evening we had some fun at my Christmas party. It was at a very trendy but multi- aged venue. So we didn't feel too much like the old codgers in the place.
We had a wonderful time. We even danced! I like Pink--so when they played Raise Your Glass...We were scooting out there. My Scotsman and I were the only couple brave enough, or old enough not to care!
We tore up the floor. We get a bit excited and energized, so we had fun!  One co-worker remarked, "You have so much energy!" Another stated that my Scotsman and I were great on the dance floor!

Even if they were bending the truth it was nice for them to say!

Fast forward to the end of the evening......
                 
After 3 strong Vodka drinks I think I was feeling a bit brave....

I started telling the man how to drive....I know....I know....It's a fault of mine!
I was tired and feisty and I wouldn't let it go!

His reply to my bossiness,

"Who's driving you or me?

I don't want to hear one more word ?

 Hear me?"

 At first I wouldn't answer..bad I know...but then I replied with, hmmm..."I think I will pretend I didn't hear you."

So of course he answered with.....

"Maybe you'll pretend not to hear my hand cracking down on your Arse!"

Even tho my guy is a gentle man......

Do you think I got my behind roasted this weekend?

The answer would be yes!

Standing, over the bed and over the knee....All at different times!

 I think we are both a bit calmer now!

Thanks for reading!

Minelle

Fun Meme!

·       Thanks for this fun Meme Erica, Ronnie, Sunny and Abby!

    What is my favorite kind of pie?  Pumpkin for sure, however I remember traditional mincemeat pie my Great Aunt used to make…what a delight that was.

·       Who’s my favorite band/singer? Gosh…too many to list. During the 70s….maybe the Beatles, Led Zeppelin, Peter Frampton…80s….The Smiths, Echo and The Bunnyman, Tears for Fears, Human League, Peter Gabriel, Sting, Rod Stuart,….the 90s…..Shall I continue? Lol. I love groups like Pink Martini, The Cranberries, Pink,  old Rock…Elvis, Classical, Swing….Andrew Sisters, Musicals, Opera….sheesh everything I guess.

·       Favorite Fruit? I love tropical fruit the best.

·       Favorite Sport? Seriously?? If you knew me you would laugh. If you knew my Scotsman he would lament his wife’s lack of interest in sports. Just to be nice to hubby, I will say ‘Football’ or Soccer for us Yanks.

·       Favorite color?  No way will I answer that one! I am an artist. My mood and creative spirit determines my favorite at any one time!

·       Favorite accessories?  I always wear earrings….I have double piercings in both ears.

·       Do you collect anything?  Shot glasses lately. My daughter must think me a sophisticated drinker. Everywhere she travels she picks up a shot glass as MY souvenir. Prior to that it was probably Santa’s….and any quirky artsy thing I see at a second hand shop. Glass ware.... Junk or not.

·       Do you read?  ALL the time, every free moment of every day.

·       Are you sad about Michael Jackson’s death?  I think any death and a tragic death is sad.

·       Can you apply mascara with your mouth closed? Nope. And I wouldn’t. Mascara is the one item of make-up I am never without. I always felt my eyes were the one thing I wanted to emphasize.

·       Have you ever broken a bone…how many? Not that I can remember. Maybe my pinkie toe on the metal of a pull out couch! Middle of the night -crying infant with an ear infection….

·      Do you text people often? All the time. You know kids never answer the phone, but text them and…..miracle of miracles…you get a response!

·       Have you ever gone to a concert?  Yes….My first was Chicago.

·       Are you a runner? In my 20s and early 30s, I used to run three miles, five days a week. However I skipped when I used the stair master or treadmill etc.....

          Would you ever get a tattoo?  Nah too chicken…..

 

·       What is the song that describes your life most? To answer this I need to look up the lyrics……

·       Have you ever been heartbroken? Yes. However, when I met my Scotsman I realized the difference in-- love… and loving, vs sharing a love of one another!

·       What do you wish to accomplish before you die?My family to always be healthy and happy.  I would also love to do something more with my artwork. I dream of making that a daily endeavor.

·       Are you afraid of death?  Not sure about that answer. I know both my Scotsman and I will be okay, I worry about my kids. So-- to answer that question I want them to be settled more when I die.

·       Are you having a good year?  Some parts are fantastic, some are very sad, others are very stress filled. I hope to focus on the fantastic, but some days…..

·       Do you forget things easily?  It depends. Ask my kids and I am very forgetful….oh wait--- also ask my kids and I have too good a memory. Ask my Scotsman and my memory is PERFECT!

·       Are you overly truthful?  When stating my imperfections. Actually honesty is very important to me. Although I try and be honest without compromising someone’s feelings!

·       Do you like the heat? I much prefer a season that is cool or cold!  In the middle of the night I may have a ‘furnace-like’ feeling, so heat is NOT my friend!

·       Have you ever met a celebrity? Yes, a few.

Thanks, 
Minelle

Love Our Lurkers, A spanking Picture and my crazy life.

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I was once a lurker....and finally realized what a great community we have here! Thank goodness PK encouraged me to blog! 

My Scotsman looked at this drawing and asked me if it was a self-portrait! Giggle!

After I laughed, and wished my body looked so good, I thought I would share a little story.

My Scotsman has only been home approximately three weeks. He had been working away from home since July. Those of you who have partners that are often away understand the transition time that accompanies your reentry into cohabiting again.

It was a bit tumultuous initially. Not too bad really, but I think we were building to a slight altercation.

Our row began and went downhill fast. Our daughter had been around, so words were muffled and looks were surreptitiously flashed. (I was the one flashing the irritated face.) However, neither of us was at their best. Nothing was resolve yet we formed a truce of sorts.

As soon as our daughter left the house, my darling said, “right in the bedroom and over the bed.” He meant it!

(Hmmmmm…. I thought---- I guess I will go….)

 He knew I would…. It had been a while....

Not really a slow start since he yanked down my pants and undies and started spanking….

I thought he was done and began to anticipate other things…..ahem…!!!

He moved away and said, “I am not finished, don’t move!” I just relaxed until he said; “I am using my favorite!”…..(uh oh)…. It was Blondie's paddle!

OUCH!

He also found a few other implements to use…Cat…

Sunny! 

After he felt I had enough we had some fun!

Relaxing in the afterglow I turned to him and asked,

 “You feel better?"

His response, “OH YEAH!”

"ME TOO."

We had a bit of a laugh.

Nothing like it, is there?

Thanks for reading!

Minelle