"You Did Kinda Deserve It!"

                                      S M A C K !!!

You all probably know by now that my life is never dull, often frenetic and always full of love with a tiny bit of mischief when I can.

In the midst of so many wonderful life changing moments and intense responsibilities we still find time for, at the very least, those happy spanky moments.

I think I have “Spank me” written on my bottom in invisible letters that only some people see! 

Aside from Cat who always thinks I need a Barn Burner, I have a darling, longtime friend here in blogland who worries about all that I take on. Her words are wise and I really think when she offers me words of caution. A while ago she told me I needed spanked if I didn’t step away from a toxic person in my home for a visit! *WINK* my friend you know who you are! I took her advice! I stuck up for myself!

I see my dad every weekend and often there are others around dropping in to just say hi or help him with something. One Saturday recently my sister and her husband were at dads during the same time as I. She was in the middle of an intense move and dressed in her scruffies, sans makeup etc! I knew a cousin and her husband from out of town were stopping bye to see dad. I thought she was 'in the know' as well! Oops…..

When she heard they were on their way (via a text to me) she was hurrying up trying to get moving quickly, more than miffed at me….in a funny way! Her husband was in the basement fixing something. She wanted to let him know about the company……..

………THEN…..WE…….HEARD…….The front door open!

Oooooh The look she leveled me……Then she hauled of and smacked my behind! LOL, I laughed so hard and said, “I am telling everyone you spanked me!”

We needed to greet everyone and the crowd became about nine of us after my Scotsman arrived! He called saying he didn’t want to miss the fun!
 

On Sundays many of us try and go to Mass with dad and then we go to his house and create a big breakfast to have together. 

On a recent Sunday we were all going to get together later in the day, so one of my siblings told everyone we should skip breakfast that Sunday since the get together included food later. 

Long and complicated, wonderful story, but one of my sibs and her family are staying with dad. I didn’t want to create more chaos this Sunday, so I was intently, telling my Scotsman the plan was to not have breakfast that Sunday! You’d have thought I was the meanest lady in the world! He wanted to go….so and so was going etc……. I am often intense and worry so much about so many things that I was really worried about overstepping this breakfast thing. I may have been just a teeny, tiny bit bossy and annoying to my Scotsman. Everyone was jumping in telling me to quiet myself and ALL WAS GOOD! I still was worried but calming some as I washed fruit at the sink.

Low and behold, I felt a powerful, loud and stingy spank right on my skirted behind! Yep, that Scotsman was through with my attitude! 

I started laughing and the rest of my worry melted away.

The same sister who spanked me walked over to me and said,

"You did kinda deserve it!"

Thanks for reading,

Minelle

A Message From Our Darling Ami Starsong

This year our dear Ami and husband Dan have certainly experienced their share of troubles!

I am happy to pass on the message that many of the stresses and worries are resolving for the Starsongs! Their nightmare move from hell is complete! Yes, they still are making their house into a home, however they are reconciled to allow time for those changes!

I am also happy to report that Dan is doing well and many of the concerns they faced regarding medical tests have relieved their minds with good results. Of course our dear Ami worried herself into a bit of a cold that is hopefully resolved as of this moment!

The good news continues as our friends go off on a vacation to celebrate their love!

Ami wanted me to let you know that she will return to blogging around mid July after a short break.

I don't know about all of you but I am looking forward to hearing all the new stories from our Ami!

Thanks all,

Minelle
 

Ball Gag!

I just wanted to touch base with all of you!

Before I tell you a very funny Tidbit, I would like to express my sincere thanks to those of you who have reached out to touch base and check in with me! Life here continues with challenges. But we are doing okay!

Now a little funny to let you know how I love to push some buttons with people!

My mil has a nurse visit her twice a week. She is such a wonderful lady. Close to my age but younger.....and shares my name! LOL. I must admit that our family is easy to visit. We are not typical in our welcome I guess. We laugh and are very adaptable and easy going. Characters all--are we!

The afternoon prior to the nurses visit I brought a cup of tea into our living room, made perfectly. I placed it on our wooden coffee table where upon, my feet found comfort and I promptly kicked over my cup, spilling the hot liquid all across the wood. My Scotsman thought I wasn't paying attention, likely (in his mind) ;) thinking I was attached to my phone! (NOT I --snort!) I mopped up the mess but it didn't look nice....you know what happens....I figured I'd work on it another day! I must admit I push his buttons here since he wants me to use a coaster and I resist!

The next day when I arrived home from work Our friendly nurse was there. She smiled and we spoke about the results of her visit. She said I cleaned up good which made my evening! 

I'm not really sure how we began talking about my Scotsman, however the conversation turned to us. She remarked in a cute conspiratorial manner that I wouldn't believe what he said....I THOUGHT it was going to be how kind and solicitous he was to me....And how loving we appeared.  I looked at him ready to smile sweetly!

She then tells me how he's been grumbling most of her visit about how I spilled the tea all over the coffee table! He was waxing it and trying to get that weird milky sheen off it. I look at her laughing and she jokingly asks me , "do you feel safe? I cheekily respond.....Of Course.....what do you mean?" Wherein she says, "does he hit you?

Soooooooo I say......wait for it...........

"NOT UNLESS I WANT HIM TO!"

I thought she was going to choke! She laughed and joked TMI! Saying she  hears enough sex info with her 80 year olds.

So walking her out I teasingly tell her my Scotsman and I have to be quiet since we have very little privacy!

Then she turns and says, "well ----you should get a ball and gag!!!" 

Yep, I laughed and said see you next time!

On a real spanking note, my guy does find time to impress me with goofy and some pointed reminders when he wishes to reign me in.

We are lucky just now to be able to spend time with each other in a relaxing manner! 

Thanks for reading, 

Minelle

A Temporary Hiatus

 On the inside I feel like this!

I am sorry to say that I will be on a temporary hiatus for a bit of time, probably both blogging and reading! :( I know I am not always the most prompt of bloggers. Often you may not hear from me more than once a month. This will be slightly different. 

My Scotsman and I decided to help out his sister with some medical issues. This is not an easy decision since she is not a very trustworthy person. Knowing all that we are going to face and deal with.....we are moving forward. (FOR NOW)

Unfortunately we already have to lay down some serious, "my house my rules" talks. Between yesterday and today we have had to amp them up quite a bit. This woman is 54 years old and acts as if she is emotionally stunted at a selfish 13! She is manipulative and already talked my guys mom into giving her prescription meds and her oxygen. We are going to use a lock box and dole out the meds to his mom per day. Ugh... we may end his sisters "help" if she can't comply. We knew we were in for some rough times, but not sure we anticipated it starting "Bang On!" 

Of course my Scotsman is leaving for a couple of weeks.....so he is the one who gets tasked with talking to them before he leaves later today.

We both are fine and trying to keep our sense of humor above all. It helps that we are both on the same page with this. 

On a humorous note I was told yesterday I needed spanked and he managed with me resisting since his sister and mom were in the next bedroom. We laughed so hard....and then ended our short playful encounter by going to a lovely dinner party. 

We had plans to finish our playful encounter with some delightful loving......that didn't happen until early this morning!

What a way to wake-up! 

Until I return,

Minelle

 

A friend is blogging again.

Just popping in to let everyone Know that Clara from Clarawishes.blogspot.com is blogging again!

I am sure she would love to hear from friends again!


Minelle

Spanked for not saying NO.

I imagine a story where a particular lady of indeterminate age takes on more than she should.

She can not say no to anyone and stretches herself so thin that she bumbles around creating havoc throughout the day. It wouldn't be too terribly bad except that she puts her safety at risk to complete tasks for everyone else beside herself!

It is possible she might forget to take her much needed medicine, or to shift her car into park when on a slight incline. Maybe this lady leaves her phone at a grocery store counter or forgets to pay an important bill.

The man she calls husband decides to show her what happens when the woman he loves allows herself to fall to the bottom of the list! He makes a point to blister her bottom intending to reign in his lady love!

This is fiction......But I do tend to take on more than I should! A little fun to lift mine and others spirits!