I thought
you would all enjoy a laugh at my expense.
I am sure
that a few of you will even suggest a spanking would help! Probably!
Did you ever
have months that were challenging, and that was putting it nicely? 
I have a
long time habit of taking on more than I should. In spite of my many obligations I find myself taking on more..
The oft
touted phrase from the Reagan era comes to mind.
JUST SAY NO! People often say
this to me.
Do I? Ummmm….NO. I can manage one more thing….
Unfortunately
that is when ‘crazy things happen.’
Let me give
you just a ‘few’ examples……
Giving an ALCOHOLIC
beverage to someone WAY, WAY underage because the color of the can was the same
as another NON-ALCOHOLIC beverage. It was spat out don’t fret!
Leaving my
keys in the car and the car running for over a half hour, while I chit chatted
blocks away.
Filling a necessary
prescription only to take one pill and promptly lose the prescription! Now it
cannot be filled for a month.
Buy some
beauty products along with many other necessary items…only to absent-mindedly
throw away the bag with said beauty products in the bag.
Miss
renewing a vehicle sticker. PROCRASTINATION and now it is LATE!
Miss getting
an emission test. PROCRASTINATION! I may have one more chance for this one!
Going to
work with jeans on instead of the nice black pants I intended. I didn’t even
realize it until I was at work.
The same day,
lean into acrylic paint and completely ruin my new pink sweater and blue jeans!
Not paying
attention to where I was going twice, bumping my head on a metal hook, and
flinging my coffee cup out of a newly banged hand.
I really
cannot say no to many of these responsibilities. I could explain it all to you
but it doesn’t change a thing.
I have to deal…..
The other
reality is that my Scotsman is basically working seven twelve hour days. I
certainly cannot expect him to jump in.
However in three weeks he and I will together take care of one major problem...UNTIL then....!
So……For now....
Just hope I can manage to stay safe and out of
trouble!
Or maybe my Scotsman can think about relieving my stress somehow!
Ahem...... He actually did suggest (Whispered) putting me over his knee....AT a FAMILY gathering.
I believe he was joking!
He was.
Now I'm not Ana - I don't ALWAYS say you need a spanking, but I do think you need a long hard one right now. You need stress relief and a good focus spanking. You have to take care of yourself!
ReplyDeleteOne more thing, you are old enough to say NO. I was taught that at 40 you can say 'no' and that after 50 you can learn to say any damn thing you please!
You always give good advice. If I could get rid of the worry associated with some of my stressors then I would be fine.
DeleteIt is family times 3 and more.
I do need to say NO with the other stuff!
My friend...saying no is so hard, but so freeing.....others are capable. I agree with PK, you need a long, hard spanking...and FOCUS girl...we want you in one piece.
ReplyDeletehugs abby
I am going to focus. The worry is getting me however.
DeleteI need a long hard...spanking....I wasn't going to type the word but then my sentence would be mis-construed.
Minelle, a stress-relief spanking might be just what you need...along with a massage, a hot bubble bath, a book you can get lost into, and a hug... :-) And Pk...I am looking forward to being able to saying anything I please in a few years...in the meantime I have finally practiced the art of saying no...good thing or I too would be doing all the afore things Minelle mentioned... :-)
ReplyDeleteI know that I could benefit with all the above. I am practicing. I cannot leave certain things undone. I did get a hug last night so that is good.
DeleteOh Wow Minelle! :)
ReplyDeleteI am very sorry that you have all of this going on. It does sound stressful. A little relief might be good! Looks like Terps has some great ideas there. I got my hands on some great smoothie ideas and will email them off to you shortly. Maybe you can sip one of those while reading a book in the bath, following the massage and spanking. Then perhaps you can chase it with a glass of wine or something!
I find myself to be all over the place these days as far as maintaining focus goes. I used to be so organized and on top of things... I even asked Rob if he thought that I got some kind of brain damage from the various anesthesias that have been used on me for a procedures or two in the last couple of years. He laughed and pointed to the spatulas in the kitchen, and said something like, "nothing that a good spanking can't fix." Then we laughed! It was a good try though... In reality I believe that it has to do with those menopausal hormones. Oh well... Feel better! :) Hugs to you!
<3 Katie
Hi Minelle, I can't find your email so if you have a chance, please send it to me.:) <3 Katie
DeleteThat Rob! LOL.
DeleteMenopausal hormones...yes I am sure is part of the issue.
Hopefully my Scott will be around soon. Probably not- since he worked 14 hours yesterday. He walked in kissed me, and went to bed.
SO OBVIOUSLY ANOTHER CRY FOR HELP !!! So now that your Scotsman knows you need a spanking, here is my suggestion, after every good smack, you say, " No I'm sorry my life is too hectic right now, maybe next time though" ...okay too long, just think that. He should still ask you questions of favours people might want you for and every one should be answered with a NO. Practice makes perfect. I for one think he needs you to practice for a very long time!
ReplyDeleteWilma that was funny! Truly I giggled at the "No I'm sorry my life is too hectic right now, maybe next time though" Plus what great advice! I need to practice saying that!
DeleteWillie,I am willing to practice have no doubt. At this moment I am sure that cannot happen. I know it drives him crazy when I am taken advantage of! I will use those words when it happens!
DeleteQuiet Sara, It is great to practice that!
Minelle, you sound very frazzled. Maybe you are exhausted. When we are exhausted needing more sleep, more healthy food, less caffiene, our bodies react by taking a little mind vacation of their own. I hope you can take a breather soon! ((hugs))
ReplyDeleteI am frazzled, and exhausted since the last week I have not been sleeping well. I definitely eat healthy so that is not the issue. I am eating a great deal of raw veg and no carbs mostly. Now exercise that maybe could help.
DeleteA breather will probably not happen til school is out.
Holy crow, Minelle! Take a breath sweetie! Leave some stuff for the rest of the world to do. Oh, and in our house....what might help would not even be a question - several of those are safety issues, a HUGE no-no for Daddy - go-cut-me 4 or 5 switches, kind of issues O_o Slow down!
ReplyDelete(((hugs)))
I know...some are safety issues. At 3:45 as I sat awake talking to my Scot he reiterated that I need to take care of the important things. He was getting ready for work.
DeleteI can slow down at certain times but some things have a short time frame that need to be completed. I have to get it done and some variables are not within my power.
Oh Minelle...we are living parallel lives. I agree with Sara, you do sound exhausted. It's time to say, "Thank you for thinking of me for this project, but I am unable to help at this time."
ReplyDeleteAnd take a long nap very soon if at all possible! Make time for you.
Elisa Xo
See my brain is overwhelmed and stressed. I can get these things done...It's all the other stressors interfering with my
DeleteAt night I can make time for me...my brain will not shut down!
Sheesh woman...take a deep breath and repeat after me "N...O....NO!" See, that wasn't so hard. I agree with June...some of those you listed are definitely safety issues!
ReplyDeleteYou definitely need a good, HARD spanking and with the hours your Scotsman is working, it sounds as if he may need the stress relief of burning your butt. Grab one of those paddles and go offer your tushie to your husband for tanning!
Call me if you need more lessons on how to say no. ;)
Hugs and Blessings,
Cat
I used to have people walk up to me and say, "look at me and repeat this word NO!"
DeleteI am sure he would love to burn my butt! However he isn't barely around!
When your life is less stressed we will talk! LOL
Hey Minelle,
ReplyDeleteOn my! I agree you sound exhausted and that you definitely need some stress relief. I hope you are both able to slow down a bit soon and take time out for yourselves.
Hugs,
Roz
I have the time at night. It just doesn't help! It's the inside of my head that creates some issues...lol
DeleteTrying to configure how to get everything settled!
Oh dear. It sounds like it is time for a intervention, Scotsman style.
ReplyDeleteI get exactly the same way - too many irons in the fire and then things just start flying to pieces, but like you - I have a really hard time saying "no." There does come a time however - sometimes I cheat and say, "Ian will kill me if I take on such and such.." and they always stop bugging me.
hugs
lillie
I an laughing at this phrase...intervention, Scotsman style.
DeleteI actually do say, "my husband needs me", or "I need to discuss that with him first!" LOL
You wore your jeans on purpose so you wouldn't ruin your nice pants.
ReplyDeleteAnd your Scotsman should put you over his knee and keep you there every day of your life.
:D
Eeeek! Every day? Now that would be painful unless I toughened my butt up a bit!
DeleteI think I need to wear jeans more often if she will not send me home. LOL
Hi MInelle, sorry sweetie but you do need a spanking, more than one really, you are dicing with death. I do what Lillie does when things get too much. I say Hubby won't let me, give that a try, be brave
ReplyDeletelove Jan.xx
Things became more stressful today....so I need to focus and find some inner calm!
DeleteWell you already know my take on this - lots of good stress relief with maybe three or four implements, just for variety you know. And for goodness sake woman, you brain is crying out for food! Where's the steak, the lamb chops, the pork and apple sausages, the rib of beef???? Shall I go on? To diet does not mean to starve! And furthermore, learn to say 'NO!"
ReplyDeleteBye sweetie, many hugs!
Ami
Yes I know your take. lol. Three or four implements? You all want me to never sit again!
DeleteI am eating protein, just trying to eat smaller portions and way more raw, including smoothies with lots of kale and other greens!
I think you do need an OTK stress spanking, sooner the better.
ReplyDeleteI've done the beauty thing. Luckily I remembered before they collected the rubbish:)
Love,
Ronnie
xx
We talked about that last night....yep as soon as we can be together. He worked 14 hours again. Add an hour each way and he is comatose when he gets in!
DeleteYou were lucky to get it out of the rubbish!
I totally totally totally relate to this!!! We run around and break-neck paces too. It's hard to get spanked when you only see your husband in passing! Here's hoping you get some quality time with the scotsman soon!!!
ReplyDeleteIn less then three weeks we are...alone! But we are solving a serious crisis for someone at the same time! LOL. We will take the good with the bad!
ReplyDeleteAnd here's hoping you get time as well!
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