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Sunday, October 25, 2015

What Kind of Spanking Satisfies You?





Since my Scotsman is often gone for long periods of time, I think about my expectations of TTWD and reality.

Being alone gives me lots of time to wonder:



What kind of spanking satisfies you?



Many short spankings through the day or days? 

One really long spanking?!

Fast and furious?

Slow and built up to a crashing crescendo? 

A hand spanking?

A 'barn burner' as Cat loves to say?

A planned spanking with many implements?

An event that takes place after much talking?

Consent or no consent?




Discipline?
Stress relief?
Erotic?



Does it matter, or does getting a spanking meet the need you have no matter what type it is?


Just my random thoughts!

Thanks for reading,

Minelle

30 comments:

  1. There you go, Minelle. All of the above!! As long as it is his idea.

    My favorite would be OTK with his hand. Then there are only the two of us in the whole world.

    That drawing is your best! I just love it. The proportion and the small of her back are exquisite. Beautiful, Minelle. Thank you.

    Hugs to the Artist!
    Ella

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    1. You are too kind Ella! I enjoyed the pic I based it off of.
      I love OTK as well.
      Hugs back!

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  2. Minnelle,
    What a great post! I love the drawing so much. My favoirte kind of spanking is an RA, over Jack's knee, close to him, his hand doing the work. It is satifying and does me a world of good every single time.
    Meredith

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    1. Hi Mere, Thank you. I never know what will strike a cord with others.
      So far hand and OTK are the winners!

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  3. Hi Minelle, great post and the drawing is fantastic. My favourite spanking is OTK with just the hand but that doesn't happen often as Bear complains his hand hurt, so then the implements appear.
    Hope your Scotsman is home soon.
    Hugs Lindy

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    1. Hi Lindy,Thank you. My guy sometimes complains about his hand too! The hand and OTK seem to have the edge here!
      My Scotsman came once for a short visit...now I may have to wait until the end of November....Boo.

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  4. Hi Minelle, awesome drawing! That is a great question. My favourite would have to be erotic spanking with a slow build up. The mood is light and it is fun for both of us :)

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Hi ya Roz, Thank you. Ah you are the first to say erotic, but I am assuming he is using his hand? Fun always lightens my mood.

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  5. I so love your pictures, thank you for sharing them with us. My favorite spanking, OTK and His hand, which always leads to other fun stuff:). Really, i enjoy them all, except for punishments, which so far this year i have managed to avoid...YEAH me!!!
    hugs abby

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    1. Hello Abby, Thank you you are kind. OTK again! LOL. We all love that fun stuff! ;-) Who would have thought! NO PUNISHMENTS Abby!

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  6. Hi Minelle,

    Beautiful drawing. You are so talented. Thanks for sharing it with us.

    OTK with his hand. Though I do love to be spanked fast and furious, told to get up and go about my business.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Hi Ronnie, You are so nice, Thanks. OTK again! I also love fast and furious!
      It can happen just like that but probably a shorter duration here.

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  7. Any spanking will do - beggars can't be choosers.

    I love the drawing, BTW, I'm in a house now, so I'm ready for you. Remember

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    1. I definitely remember, I've been thinking already! Ideas abound!

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  8. Hi Minelle, lovely drawing. I know it makes me sound greedy but any kind will do!
    I love it when I am being told off though and he is making a production of it, lol
    love Jan,xx

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    1. Hi Jan, I do not think you sound greedy at all! I concur even when I don't want one! lol!
      When it becomes MORE...yep!
      Thanks hon.

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  9. Beautiful drawing Minelle. I think it's been raised before but a collection would make a wonderful book.

    I am mostly spanked because it makes me happy but, oddly enough, it's the rare discipline spanking that gives me the most satisfaction. A trip over his lap for a thorough bottom warming restores my equilibrium and sets my world to right.

    Rosie x

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    1. Hi Rosie, thank you for saying that!
      I always wonder about what makes the discipline spanking satisfying. Its not exactly pleasant....but...it is meeting a need.

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  10. I'm with Leigh, any one would be preferable, but those that have the most impact (no pun intended) have a gradual build up, then a long spell before a slow wind down. We don't do punishments, so it's all about feeling mellow and chilled at the end, plus the achy bum.

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    1. hi DelFonte, true, true! My Scotsman doesn't do slow build up, so more often than not its ouchie until.....after. That is a different feeling.

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  11. Hi Minelle, great drawing. I'd also go with any kind of spanking. The good girl ones are nicer, but the others are maybe even more important for my inner calm. I'd always prefer a slow build up, but that would only happen with the good girl spankings.

    hugs

    Nina

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    1. Hi Ni Na, how are you feeling? it seems that most of us enjoy the same things. Any spanking is good but we will be satisfied after even if it is discipline.

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  12. Hi Minelle - I love your picture! I think I would go for all those spankings. Love the erotic ones, need the discipline and RA ones - plus those make me feel oddly comforted.

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    1. Hi Maggie, thank you. LOL all of them? I am sure everyone would take all of them too! Those ones that are not for fun seem to meet a definite need!

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  13. Hello Minelle
    I am with Ella in that I want the spanking to be his idea.
    In my fantasies, they are all for punishment along with lecturing. I always think about starting off with a hand spanking OTK but that doesn't happen much here.

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    1. Hi Janey, I agree that it is so much better if they read our need and they are compelled to satisfy it! Hand spankings win!

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  14. My favorite to fantasize about is the long hard punishment ones, lol, but then when it actually happens, I usually love it when we mix it with sex, and he starts to spank me at random throughout.

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  15. Hi Julia, it's funny how so many of us want similar things. We may have a slightly different TTWD in our lives, but our desires are similar!

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  16. They are all good except the Barn Burners! Run like hell from those, I say.

    That is your best drawing yet! It's brilliant!

    Hugs
    Ami

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  17. Hi Ami! I would not like a barn burner either! Fun, stress relief, reeling me in.... All okay!
    Thanks for saying this is my best yet! Makes me smile!

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