Scottish Barn Burner

My Scotsman is home! I am so relieved and happy he is back with us! We hate being apart. While he is away, many of our conversations begin and end with how much we hate being apart. The older we get the harder it is! My guy and I never let a day go by without saying the essential sentiment, “I LOVE YOU!” 

We are goofy and playful, teasing and spontaneous. Nonetheless, we have moments when we just get upset and cross with one another. We are each VERY emotional people. 

Often when a partner is gone for periods of time there are interludes I will call honeymoon and readjustment phases. My Scotsman and I both struggle with expectations.

I know this will happen, however as I get older I want to rush over the adjustment times and only embrace the great, LOVING.

The cuddling and intimate fun to be exact!

I start to back away from all I am juggling and often expect he can read my mind as to these duties I am relinquishing!

Unfortunately, I become quite snarky believing he SHOULD

KNOW……EVERYTHING…..MOSTLY……BY ……

OSMOSIS

Last Sunday I was angry and irritated with the whole process. I wanted my time with him NOW. We had connected…..but remember our time has some barriers to intimacy since his mother has been with us, as well as her being quite ill lately. 

He is full of love and appreciation for all I do…..BUT I can’t seem to help myself when I feel he should “Jump into affection as soon as I want it!” That could mean he can be in the middle of a project and I say…….., 

“How can you not recognize that we have time to have fun….and you are sitting here doing…..(Fill in the blank)

My comments and pushing had him threatening a major spanking of epic proportions. I didn’t believe him……NOPE not one bit. He always smacks and spanks, but the really long and intense ones are mostly for fun or stress relief.

I have to remember this time and NEVER PUSH the man! 

Well…….last Sunday after he arrived on Saturday…..

I decided we had a bit of time. Now, the man loves being intimate with me. However he has been gone almost three months and we have so many things that need our attention.

In the middle of cooking dinner, I noticed his mother was asleep. Since she is all but deaf, I figured he should be aware that we had time to run into the bedroom and make wild passionate love! He was intently filling out paperwork and paying bills.

 I said, “ I cannot believe you don’t want to make love with me!”

He looked up with that glazed eyed stare…. “Huh?”

“Fine!” I humphed.  (I am a woman who is smart and capable…..however…..I continued)

Interject…..side comments and slightly sarcastic moments in the next bit of time!

He did say, “we will get to the loving…. Let me finish……”

I followed him into the living room after more disgruntled talk….

“FINE I am going into the bedroom by myself…..AND…..WITH OR WITHOUT YOU I am having fun!”

OH BOY was I mad!

SO WAS HE!

“RIGHT YOU ARE IN FOR IT NOW! Into the bedroom. You are getting a spanking to remember!” He mouthed.

I snorted, saying “SURE…..I don’t think so!”

Then he stood up and walked behind me gently corralling me into our room.

I thought oops maybe I went too far! 

Down across the bed I went.

His hand was fast and furious across my behind! He went to town. I was ouching and kicking my legs some. 

He said, “Put your legs down I am not finished!”

He moved to the other side! I can’t believe you are acting this way. He may have even told me to be a good girl!

“You really need a good spanking!” 

This spanking was given over my pants and I felt it even though he always is mindful of his strength!

I did have a virgin butt until this moment!

MIRACULOUSLY I felt great after he was finished!

CALM and COOL! (Except the pain in my bottom)

The next couple of days saw me feeling tender, deep not surface hurt.

We did get to the loving later that night!

All in all our reconnection is moving along., including his

 Scottish Barn Burner.

 Sorry about the recycled images! Didn't have time to draw new ones!

Next time I will share how we broke our bed!

Thanks for reading!

Minelle