Scottish Barn Burner

My Scotsman is home! I am so relieved and happy he is back with us! We hate being apart. While he is away, many of our conversations begin and end with how much we hate being apart. The older we get the harder it is! My guy and I never let a day go by without saying the essential sentiment, “I LOVE YOU!” 

We are goofy and playful, teasing and spontaneous. Nonetheless, we have moments when we just get upset and cross with one another. We are each VERY emotional people. 

Often when a partner is gone for periods of time there are interludes I will call honeymoon and readjustment phases. My Scotsman and I both struggle with expectations.

I know this will happen, however as I get older I want to rush over the adjustment times and only embrace the great, LOVING.

The cuddling and intimate fun to be exact!

I start to back away from all I am juggling and often expect he can read my mind as to these duties I am relinquishing!

Unfortunately, I become quite snarky believing he SHOULD

KNOW……EVERYTHING…..MOSTLY……BY ……

OSMOSIS

Last Sunday I was angry and irritated with the whole process. I wanted my time with him NOW. We had connected…..but remember our time has some barriers to intimacy since his mother has been with us, as well as her being quite ill lately. 

He is full of love and appreciation for all I do…..BUT I can’t seem to help myself when I feel he should “Jump into affection as soon as I want it!” That could mean he can be in the middle of a project and I say…….., 

“How can you not recognize that we have time to have fun….and you are sitting here doing…..(Fill in the blank)

My comments and pushing had him threatening a major spanking of epic proportions. I didn’t believe him……NOPE not one bit. He always smacks and spanks, but the really long and intense ones are mostly for fun or stress relief.

I have to remember this time and NEVER PUSH the man! 

Well…….last Sunday after he arrived on Saturday…..

I decided we had a bit of time. Now, the man loves being intimate with me. However he has been gone almost three months and we have so many things that need our attention.

In the middle of cooking dinner, I noticed his mother was asleep. Since she is all but deaf, I figured he should be aware that we had time to run into the bedroom and make wild passionate love! He was intently filling out paperwork and paying bills.

 I said, “ I cannot believe you don’t want to make love with me!”

He looked up with that glazed eyed stare…. “Huh?”

“Fine!” I humphed.  (I am a woman who is smart and capable…..however…..I continued)

Interject…..side comments and slightly sarcastic moments in the next bit of time!

He did say, “we will get to the loving…. Let me finish……”

I followed him into the living room after more disgruntled talk….

“FINE I am going into the bedroom by myself…..AND…..WITH OR WITHOUT YOU I am having fun!”

OH BOY was I mad!

SO WAS HE!

“RIGHT YOU ARE IN FOR IT NOW! Into the bedroom. You are getting a spanking to remember!” He mouthed.

I snorted, saying “SURE…..I don’t think so!”

Then he stood up and walked behind me gently corralling me into our room.

I thought oops maybe I went too far! 

Down across the bed I went.

His hand was fast and furious across my behind! He went to town. I was ouching and kicking my legs some. 

He said, “Put your legs down I am not finished!”

He moved to the other side! I can’t believe you are acting this way. He may have even told me to be a good girl!

“You really need a good spanking!” 

This spanking was given over my pants and I felt it even though he always is mindful of his strength!

I did have a virgin butt until this moment!

MIRACULOUSLY I felt great after he was finished!

CALM and COOL! (Except the pain in my bottom)

The next couple of days saw me feeling tender, deep not surface hurt.

We did get to the loving later that night!

All in all our reconnection is moving along., including his

 Scottish Barn Burner.

 Sorry about the recycled images! Didn't have time to draw new ones!

Next time I will share how we broke our bed!

Thanks for reading!

Minelle

Love Our Lurkers 10!

Welcome all of you lurkers out here in Blogland!!

Please take a moment and say hello! Let me know you are there!
I was once a lurker just like you. It was so very scary for me that first time I hit the publish comment button! My heart was racing and I thought everyone new my secret! Ha....What a fun journey this has been! I have met the most amazing people and have developed lifelong friendships!

 I started by penning a spanking story for PK at New Beginnings and Fantasy Friday. Nowadays I share bits and pieces of my Scotsman and our chaotic life. Sometimes I draw a picture or two for every one's enjoyment.

Hope to hear from you out there!

Minelle

Silent Spanking= Capsaicin Scream!

So I did something impulsive and stupid.

I have been here before.

A long time ago, January of 2014 to be exact. The not so smart, crazy woman I am, used cinnamon oil on her bum. Read here if you want to laugh! 

Today my excuse for stupidity is to blame it on missing my Scotsman......It has been about 5 weeks with just one short visit.

I just wanted a warm glow...something nice and comforting.  

                                               HA!

Really is that so hard to believe? 

Please reserve judgement until you read the entire accounting.

My MIL has been experiencing joint pain lately. Our son kindly purchased Capsaicin cream to comfort and relieve her pain.

The little devil on my shoulder whispered in my ear....."Remember all those posts talking about something called a SILENT SPANKING?"

"I bet it would produce a nice "COMFORTING" WARM GLOW."

"Many people pooh pooed the discomfort......"That wee devil Said.....

The little stinker on my shoulder---- lied! 

I went into the bathroom and thought oooh....I'll see what happens!

I squeezed out a generous dollop on my hand, rubbed it all over my left cheek, and did the same to the right cheek. 

NOTHING HAPPENED.

I pulled up my panties and pants --smirking to myself. Just a twinge of feeling ran around my bottom. 

I figured I was one of those woman who didn't experience anything when using the CAP cream. 

Proceeding to my leather love seat, I sat to begin writing up my lesson plans for the week.

Hmmmmm.......I thought.

My bum is beginning to ......OUCH!!!

BURN! BURN! BURN!!! 

HELLS FIRES!!! 

What the heck? I turned and twisted..... 

I texted some friends!
What will stop this burn?

While I waited for their suggestions I ran to the bathroom for a WET WASH CLOTH!

OH NO! Many of you are shaking your heads....NOT WATER!

Well I sat on that cool washcloth...GOLLLLLLLYYYYY! 

It seemed to offer comfort.....but then.........!!

It just reignited the hellish heat once more! On a scale of 0-10....

                                   10 

Cat suggested oil.....I did that! Three times! Still burned.

I yanked my pants and panties down, turned a fan on and laid across the bed red arse in the air!

AHHHHHH! LOVELY!  

It seemed to get better.

Then I was skyping with Ami....I confessed to my impulsive actions... 

After her wide eyed perplexed look and wondering WHY I would do that we had a good laugh.....

UNTILL THE BURN BEGAN AGAIN!! 

I carried my lap top and lay across the bed in front of the fan again a few times during our talk.

I was not bare arsed! I spared her that image! 

Those earlier friends texted and called to check on my bum!

I'm still sitting on a hot bum almost 10 hours later....

When I told the Scotsman, he said, "NO MORE EXPERIMENTING!" He did think it was hilarious after he made sure I was okay!

Crazy what love will make you do to get that LOVING FEELING! *Smirk*

Thanks for reading,

Minelle
 
 

What Kind of Spanking Satisfies You?

Since my Scotsman is often gone for long periods of time, I think about my expectations of TTWD and reality.

Being alone gives me lots of time to wonder:



What kind of spanking satisfies you?



Many short spankings through the day or days? 

One really long spanking?!

Fast and furious?

Slow and built up to a crashing crescendo? 

A hand spanking?

A 'barn burner' as Cat loves to say?

A planned spanking with many implements?

An event that takes place after much talking?

Consent or no consent?




Discipline?
Stress relief?
Erotic?



Does it matter, or does getting a spanking meet the need you have no matter what type it is?


Just my random thoughts!

Thanks for reading,

Minelle

Virgin No-Spanked butt Syndrome!

I have what I refer to as "Virgin No-Spanked Butt Syndrome."

You ask, "what does that mean?" 

Simply stated, I haven't had a proper spanking in quite a while.

I could say I have been the perfect angel, and the Scotsman has been wondering why he hasn't needed to rein me in! His hand pearly smooth!

That would most likely be a misrepresentation of the truth. 

I have actually been a beast.

Hormones keep messing with my mood. Sometimes I am a young fertile woman.....At others I am embarking on that journey into never land! Ugh!

Throw in the fact that my darling is away again. He most likely will only return at Thanksgiving and continue up until Christmas.

We were both hit with real life moods and stresses. Real life often interferes with our expectation of TTWD.

What should have happened often, contrasting with what actually did occur.

I can honestly say that he should have walloped me on several occasions before he left. In particular once when we were on a walk and I responded negatively and very impulsively to my guys bellowing. I was not on my best behavior! I REALLY needed the stress relief and settling a spanking would have provided. However after the incident we walked into a full house. AND WE WERE NEVER ALONE the entire weekend! 

I must admit I am in the love/hate spanking category just now. I feel like it hurts ( I know its supposed to) and do I really want it? Then I think about how I feel and....I want that part!

We did have occasion for some erotic play including spanking. There were a few smacks to point out I was skirting that line in the sand....but really nothing much.

So Unless I can visit the man soon, my behind will remain in its pearly state!

With a "Virgin Butt!"

But...EVEN Though I am a capable woman. I hope I can visit-- just because I miss him all the time!

Thanks for Reading,

Minelle
 

Have You Ever....Part 2?

Have You Ever…..Part 2?

Terps penned this for any and all who wish to join in the fun!

Have you ever danced down a street in Maine? No, I have never been to Maine. I would love to travel there.

Have you ever seen the seals on the pier in San Francisco? Yes! Twice! I would go there as many times as I could! Beautiful city! The seals are a joy to watch!

Have you ever stubbed your toe three times in a day? I am quite sure this has happened to me.

Have you ever been to Disney World? Yes 3 times. Once before I was married with a small group of friends and twice with my husband and kids….oh and one of those times MIL came with us!

Have you ever laughed so hard you cried? Gosh yes! I love laughing! The act of laughing is trans-formative!

Have you ever injured yourself sneezing? I don’t think I have…..

Have you ever been playing a game with a child only to realize that you are still playing long after they left? Many a time! Barbie’s….I may have been creating furniture for Barbie and friends. I always have a hard time stopping when playing with Play Doh, Lincoln Logs, Legos or any other creative process.

Have you ever spun yourself dizzy? Absolutely.

Have you ever said I love you and meant it? God yes.

Have you ever stopped and truly looked at the beauty in nature before you? Sometimes I get shivers and tingles all over when I see the beauty in our world!

Have you ever been so relaxed and lazy spending Christmas day with your immediate family that instead of cooking a big fancy meal you ended up making hot dogs for dinner instead (and saved the Christmas meal for the day after)? Never ever! I love Christmas but I never get to relax on Christmas Day.

Have you ever heard someone say hello and say hello back only to realize they were talking to someone else? Yes….I am laughing remembering all the times this has happened to me!

Have you ever wished upon the first star of the night while reciting the poem "Starlight, star bright, first star I see tonight, I wish I may, I wish I might, have the wish I wish tonight?” Yes. Now I am wondering if any of my wishes came true?

Have you ever opened your front door to be welcomed by a hissing snake? Never ever, ever!Thank goodness!! However There have been June bugs and spiders!

Have you ever eaten peanut butter straight out of the jar? Yes. Still do whenever I have the urge!

Have you ever gone into the woods and screamed as loud as you could, just to see if you could? Not sure if it was the woods….but I have been known to scream as loud as I could…..I was a bit of a character at times.

Have you ever nursed your babies...almost 5 years in a row (2 years for the first child all the way through your pregnancy of the second and then 2-1/2 years with the second)? No, I wasn’t able to nurse easily.

Have you ever been so sleep deprived that you made a potentially dangerous mistake and even though everything turned out fine, you still feel guilty about it? Many times I was sleep deprived. Once when my kids were very sick and sleep was even more elusive then normal, I fell asleep at a stop light. Unfortunately my car slowly moved forward and tapped the car in front of me.  I was horrified and apologized profusely to the man I bumped. He was so nice to me I almost cried. I vowed to never feel that way and drive. The incident taught me to pull over someplace safe if I was so tired I felt I could fall asleep standing!

Have you ever gone outside on a rainy summer day with your umbrella so you could dance while singing "Singing in the Rain?” Yes while tap dancing away and splashing away! Usually I was joined by my friends!

Have you ever watching a lightning storm? This is something I love to do! The power of the elements gives me energy! My Scotsman has been known to bellow at me when he feels I am courting storm danger--- too much!

Have you ever spoken with someone in a completely made-up language, just for fun? Many, many times! I still do when I get the chance to be silly!!

Have you ever written a children's book and tried to publish it? I have had the story in my head, but drew the pictures first! I never finished it, so I never tried to publish the story!

Have you ever felt the magic of holding someone's hand? Daily.

Have you ever kissed someone at midnight? So many years I cannot begin to count….

Have you ever written a novel? No.

Have you ever smiled so much your cheeks ached? Yes! I love that feeling!

Have you ever followed your dreams and started your own business? Nope.

Have you ever cried during a commercial? So many I can’t even count the times my family says, “NOT AGAIN!” Of course the Scotsman is there crying with me!

Have you ever jumped in the waves of the Atlantic Ocean? No.

Have you ever done the Hula in Hawaii? Never been to Hawaii.

Have you ever followed a butterfly? Yes.

Have you ever finger painted as an adult (not with a child present)? Are you kidding? Yessss!

Have you ever fallen up the stairs? Many times.

Have you ever fallen down the stairs multiple times? Never down the stairs….I am knocking on wood so I do not jinx myself!

Have you ever walked into a wall, when you were completely sober? (did I mention I have a clumsy streak? And yes, I understand the irony considering I am a dancer at heart.) Unfortunately I have done this. I have also walked into lamp posts.  

Have you ever started to go into the wrong car? Yes….I even wrote a post about it!

Have you ever had a pet bunny? or a pet chinchilla? or pet fish? I have had pet fish.

Have you ever played truth or dare? Yes…..

Have you ever felt really close to someone you've never met? Many times here in Blogland!

Thanks for Reading!

Minelle