My Scotsman
is home! I am so relieved and happy he is back with us! We hate being apart. While
he is away, many of our conversations begin and end with how much we hate being
apart. The older we get the harder it is! My guy and I never let a day go by without
saying the essential sentiment, “I LOVE YOU!”
We are goofy
and playful, teasing and spontaneous. Nonetheless, we have moments when we just
get upset and cross with one another. We are each VERY emotional people.
Often when a
partner is gone for periods of time there are interludes I will call honeymoon
and readjustment phases. My Scotsman and I both struggle with expectations.
I know this
will happen, however as I get older I want to rush over the adjustment times
and only embrace the great, LOVING.
The cuddling
and intimate fun to be exact!
I start to
back away from all I am juggling and often expect he can read my mind as to
these duties I am relinquishing!
Unfortunately, I become quite snarky believing
he SHOULD
KNOW……EVERYTHING…..MOSTLY……BY ……
OSMOSIS
Last Sunday
I was angry and irritated with the whole process. I wanted my time with him
NOW. We had connected…..but remember our time has some barriers to intimacy since
his mother has been with us, as well as her being quite ill lately.
He is full
of love and appreciation for all I do…..BUT I can’t seem to help myself when I
feel he should “Jump into affection as soon as I want it!”
That could mean he can be in the middle of a project and I say……..,
“How can you
not recognize that we have time to have fun….and you are sitting here doing…..(Fill
in the blank)
My comments
and pushing had him threatening a major spanking of epic proportions. I didn’t
believe him……NOPE not one bit. He always smacks and spanks, but the really long
and intense ones are mostly for fun or stress relief.
I have to
remember this time and NEVER PUSH the man!
Well…….last
Sunday after he arrived on Saturday…..
I decided we
had a bit of time. Now, the man loves being intimate with me. However he has
been gone almost three months and we have so many things that need our
attention.
In the
middle of cooking dinner, I noticed his mother was asleep. Since she is all but
deaf, I figured he should be aware that we had time to run into the bedroom and
make wild passionate love! He was intently filling out paperwork and paying
bills.
I said, “ I cannot believe you don’t want to
make love with me!”
He looked up
with that glazed eyed stare…. “Huh?”
“Fine!” I
humphed. (I am a woman who is smart and
capable…..however…..I continued)
Interject…..side
comments and slightly sarcastic moments in the next bit of time!
He did say, “we
will get to the loving…. Let me finish……”
I followed
him into the living room after more disgruntled talk….
“FINE I am
going into the bedroom by myself…..AND…..WITH OR WITHOUT YOU I am having fun!”
OH BOY was I
mad!
SO WAS HE!
“RIGHT YOU
ARE IN FOR IT NOW! Into the bedroom. You are getting a spanking to remember!”
He mouthed.
I snorted,
saying “SURE…..I don’t think so!”
Then he
stood up and walked behind me gently corralling me into our room.
I thought
oops maybe I went too far!
Down across
the bed I went.
His hand was
fast and furious across my behind! He went to town. I was ouching and kicking
my legs some.
He said, “Put
your legs down I am not finished!”
He moved to
the other side! I can’t believe you are acting this way. He may have even told
me to be a good girl!
“You really
need a good spanking!”
This
spanking was given over my pants and I felt it even though he always is mindful
of his strength!
I did have a
virgin butt until this moment!
MIRACULOUSLY
I felt great after he was finished!
CALM and
COOL! (Except the pain in my bottom)
The next
couple of days saw me feeling tender, deep not surface hurt.
We did get
to the loving later that night!
All in all
our reconnection is moving along., including his
Scottish Barn Burner.
Sorry about the recycled images! Didn't have time to draw new ones!
Next time I will share how we broke
our bed!
Thanks for reading!
Minelle
