A Temporary Hiatus

 On the inside I feel like this!

I am sorry to say that I will be on a temporary hiatus for a bit of time, probably both blogging and reading! :( I know I am not always the most prompt of bloggers. Often you may not hear from me more than once a month. This will be slightly different. 

My Scotsman and I decided to help out his sister with some medical issues. This is not an easy decision since she is not a very trustworthy person. Knowing all that we are going to face and deal with.....we are moving forward. (FOR NOW)

Unfortunately we already have to lay down some serious, "my house my rules" talks. Between yesterday and today we have had to amp them up quite a bit. This woman is 54 years old and acts as if she is emotionally stunted at a selfish 13! She is manipulative and already talked my guys mom into giving her prescription meds and her oxygen. We are going to use a lock box and dole out the meds to his mom per day. Ugh... we may end his sisters "help" if she can't comply. We knew we were in for some rough times, but not sure we anticipated it starting "Bang On!" 

Of course my Scotsman is leaving for a couple of weeks.....so he is the one who gets tasked with talking to them before he leaves later today.

We both are fine and trying to keep our sense of humor above all. It helps that we are both on the same page with this. 

On a humorous note I was told yesterday I needed spanked and he managed with me resisting since his sister and mom were in the next bedroom. We laughed so hard....and then ended our short playful encounter by going to a lovely dinner party. 

We had plans to finish our playful encounter with some delightful loving......that didn't happen until early this morning!

What a way to wake-up! 

Until I return,

Minelle

 

A friend is blogging again.

Just popping in to let everyone Know that Clara from Clarawishes.blogspot.com is blogging again!

I am sure she would love to hear from friends again!


Minelle

Spanked for not saying NO.

I imagine a story where a particular lady of indeterminate age takes on more than she should.

She can not say no to anyone and stretches herself so thin that she bumbles around creating havoc throughout the day. It wouldn't be too terribly bad except that she puts her safety at risk to complete tasks for everyone else beside herself!

It is possible she might forget to take her much needed medicine, or to shift her car into park when on a slight incline. Maybe this lady leaves her phone at a grocery store counter or forgets to pay an important bill.

The man she calls husband decides to show her what happens when the woman he loves allows herself to fall to the bottom of the list! He makes a point to blister her bottom intending to reign in his lady love!

This is fiction......But I do tend to take on more than I should! A little fun to lift mine and others spirits!

Answers to your Questions!

lindy asked, If you could travel anywhere in the world where would you choose? Gosh I have so many places and Countries I would give my eye teeth to visit! I would love to see many places all across the United States such as: North Carolina, Wyoming, Seattle, Boston, Arizona, Missouri, Alaska, Maine, Oklahoma....and lots more. I would enjoy visiting, Ireland, England, Scotland, France, Canada, New Zealand and Australia!
 
What's your favourite implement and position? My very favorite position is over my Scotsman's Knee and his hand! Although I have a great fondness for Ronnie's heart shaped spoon and Sunny's heart slapper.....depending on if it is over jeans I like the thud of Blondie's heart shaped paddle.

Jan asked, Have you got any of your drawings on the walls at home?   I have tons of pictures on the walls of my home. There are also plenty of pictures on walls of family and friends!

 Have you tried getting a book together and getting it printed, as a coffee table book maybe? I have to admit that the idea has crossed my mind. However I am such a perfectionist it would take me a long time to complete the drawings if I put them in a book for sale. Plus I think the extent of my supporters would be all you lovely ladies!

Ronnie asked,  If anything - what scares you most about TTWD? I think this is a very thought provoking question for me. I am kind of bossy and I have a hard time letting go of certain things. A bad habit of believing I know best also plagues me. I think interfering too much in my Scotsman's decisions regarding TTWD is part of the answer. Also, not getting caught up in false realities regarding TTWD. Real isn't actually perfect and often times messy. That is what I want to remind myself.
 
Do you believe in ghosts? Yes I do. I think there are many who walk among us, but we don't always have the ability to connect. I often speak to my mom now. I believe she can hear me and may have the ability to visit. That is my hope.

Abby asked, When did you discover your artistic talent...did you draw with crayons when you were a child...ever take lessons. My earliest memory of drawing was at 3 or 4 years of age. I would sit with my mother as she taught me about art and how to draw. She was quite talented. We have many artists in our family. I have never taken lessons per se. I took 4 years of art in HS and went to college and beyond studying art. One summer in HS I was awarded a scholarship to an exclusive art camp.  I love crayons. I often used them as a child. They were always readily available! 


 How did your first spanking happen...at your suggestion...at his request... Before we were married my Scotsman pulled me over his knee and spanked me for punching him in the arm. He threatened me when I wouldn't stop. He followed through---mildly! I also remember prior to marriage throwing my ring at him and his bellowing back at me that I needed to go across his knee! He voiced these observations throughout our married life. Sometimes a swat or two or three would land on my rear. However, he didn't really
Give long spankings until I wrote a FF for PK. I hadn't shared my desires until then. I thought I needed to keep my proclivities under wraps. I was just so confused. Long story short, after I shared we began to practice the erotic component!  Needless to say he is quite happy to spank more!

Maggie asked,  Are you a cat person or a dog person? Or, perhaps, a horse person? I love dogs! We have two dogs which are pains in our butts, yet we love them! I have had cats and do love them too.






 How long have you been doing DD and did you ask for it? My guy just reigns me in. I don't consider us DD, however some people have suggested we are DD light. He certainly gets upset when I am snarky and cheeky. His response is often a threat of a spanking or to actually spank. I guess we have been open about it for as long as I have blogged..( 4 years?)..starting into the waters with the fun stuff. It has morphed into him being more comfortable with the 'CHECKING ME ASPECT!"

Rosie asked, My question is similar to Jan's: Would you consider publishing some of your drawings in a book for us all to enjoy? You flatter me. I have considered doing it, not sure it would be well received since there are so many great spanking artists here. I would need to be off work to do the drawings justice. At least that is what I feel now.

I hope I didn't miss anyone! I can still answer questions.....If anyone wants to ask!

Thanks for reading here!

Minelle

 

He Missed Spanking Me! And.....Questions?

My Scotsman was away again. It was three weeks this time. I am always sad to see him go, however I just travel into that place where I manage what I feel needs doing and leave the rest for when he returns. This time we were on opposite schedules. He was working as I slept. Unfortunately that meant if we spoke daily it consisted of fleeting moments on his short drive to or from work. 

Unfortunately, I had a health concern and a scan during that time which worried both of us. My concerns were put to rest and I am fine. As a matter of fact I have lost 13 pounds- therefore, all my worries regarding blood work and certain 'levels' are great too. No processed carbs--- are the BEST.

When my guy returns we are always ecstatic to be together once again. This time both of us endeavored to eat properly and lose some weight. I was Sargent Major in this pursuit! He knows how crazy I get!  

The moment came for us to see each other and my Scotsman definitely dropped some significant weight! I was full of compliments and so excited for him! However after a short bit of time....He didn't say anything about my loss! 

When I brought it up he said, "You always look great, and I definitely can see it!"

No, That didn't make me happy. I was irritated. Then he said, "My mom said you lost a lot of weight and I think you look wonderful!" He nuzzled and kissed me some.

I was just fuming and started to hint.....That I must not LOOK like I lost anything....SINCE he didn't notice or SAY anything.

 I know....I think its hormones.....

After ONE TOO MANY SARCASTIC COMMENTS.......

ONLY 35 minutes after our reuniting. YES...
.
He bent me over and spanked me quite firmly.
Finishing he said, "God I missed that!"

 I laughed feeling wonderfully light!

I would be fibbing if I said that was the only time in these last few days he hasn't threatened or placed his hand upon my bottom.

We're good, but I will be relieved when we can get on the same schedule again! 

PS..... drawing is an old one I never finished since there are a few mistakes...No time to make a new one....sorry

Now I know my life is anything but interesting, however, if you want to ask me questions....ask away.

Thanks for reading!

Minelle 

Sunny's "JUST WONDERING" MEME

Are you on Facebook? Yes I am.
 

If the answer is yes, do you respond to what you consider stupid posts?Sometimes, just for fun!

 

Name one of your favorite bugaboos? (person, place or thing that really bothers you) I ABSOLUTELY HATE THE DIVISIVE POLITICS IN THE U.S. RIGHT NOW! I try very hard not to post political stuff. Now and again I may cave and "like: something political. I actually cannot deal with the negative vitriol out in politic land at the moment. Please realize it is the idiots in charge who love to pit us against one other so we stop looking at them!

 

How many FB friends do you have? 200 plus....

Assuming you have an email account, how often do you check? Depending on the account I check some several times a day. I guess I am nutty.

 

Do you have more than one email account? I have more than three. One for work, one personal and my blogging email. I have about three others that are related to blogging. I don't remember how to access them. I was a computer mess at the beginning! 

 

Do you twitter, or is it tweet? No way! One more thing? My kids and the younger people at work all do that!

 

Do you have a mobile phone? God yes! It is my lifeline! I read everything on it!

Is it a smartphone or one of the old-fashioned kind? I feel lucky to have a smartphone!

How often do you check for messages, text or otherwise? Don't ask....I am compulsive at times. That is all I will say! 

 

Do you get accused of being on the phone or computer too much? Ummmm.....Read above.

 

If so, by who? My Scotsman for one..Many times he asks for it...however he can also be on his phone a bit at times ;0....I think I am worse however!

Would you rather read on an e-reader or an actual book? For spanking books I like e-readers, otherwise I believe I would read a regular book when I can. But then again I haven't done that recently. I am all on Kindle, Nook, ibooks or Kobe

 

 

The title of the last book you read in any genre? I read a lot of books at the same time so....

Loving His China Doll by Sunny, The Secret Diary of a Disciplined Wife by Ronnie. Ive started Cassie Corralled by PK, Ghosts by Laura Spinella, In The Woods by Jana French....

There are more but you will think I am totally a nut...

 

Thanks for reading

 

Minelle 

Ella's Winter Meme!

Thank You Ella for this Meme!


1.  You have to leave your house because of a disaster.  All the people and pets you love are safe.  If you could choose just one item to carry out, what would it be?

I guess this question made me think to prepare! First I need to scan every picture I have in my house! I would already have my phone on my person.....so if I scanned all my pics to my laptop.....Id grab that! Ugh but now I am thinking about my own art......!!!


2.  Tell us about a book or series of books you loved as a child.

I devoured mysteries and romance! I remember a series called the Happy Hollisters! I loved Nancy Drew and later The Borrowers....at about 14, I was into Harliquin Romance books!



3.  Name one item of clothing that you love for your spouse to wear.

 Hmmm......I love when my Scotsman wears his soccer (Football) teams shirts. His favorite colors representing his team make him happy and I love seeing him that way!


4.  Is there a lullaby your mom or dad sang to you that you also sang to your child?

 My parents sang all the time. I can't remember one lullaby. Mom used to sing 'School Days' on long car trips. Dad sang a few children's songs as he got ready in the morning....intensionally to wake us up! However, I have fond memories of Sundays after Church when my parents would play musicals and opera on our record player!


5.  Tell about the fanciest restaurant at which you have ever dined.

 I can't remember the name....and I am sure I have never eaten at a restaurant that was super expensive.....However white table clothed, middle of the road classy.......There are MANY.
But, the Gulf Coast on our Honeymoon-- a Seafood restaurant is my choice!


6.  Tell us about any phobias you have. What else are you scared of?

I am terrified of spiders! TERRIFIED! I actually jumped out of a slow moving car on a hill to get away from a spider! I also traumatized my niece to kill a spider that was crawling on my seat as I was driving.....Hmmmm... then there was the time I stripped thinking a spider was on me....DID I TELL YOU I AM TERRIFIED?


7.  Is there something old from a family member that you treasure?

The things I cherish are gifts given from the heart of another. However I do have a couple of antique pieces from my parents. One is a beautiful painted bowl my dads mother kept her jewelry in, another is a small china cabinet in my basement my moms dad refinished.


8.  If there is reading material in your bathroom, what magazines or books could be found? 

 TONS of magazines! Smithsonian or health type magazines!


9.  Tell us about your dearest childhood friend. Besides the typical out door stuff?

My Cousin and my sisters are truly my best friends from my childhood! We all shared secrets, played dress-up, long board games and traveled with each other! Each of these special woman are those I would trust with my life.  Not sure I would share COMPLETELY about the spanking stuff. However some know the crazier or wilder side and others see the mature big sister!


10.  Is there a household task that belongs to your husband? 

He usually washes dishes and does quite a bit of laundry. I HATE those chores. I do other things he doesn't enjoy lest you think I am terrible. OH and I HATE getting gas in the car! ( lots of bellowing and maybe a few smacks related to that last one.... depending on his tolerance level.)


11.  Have you ever smoked pot?  How old were you the first time?  Do you still enjoy?

Yes, I was in college. I preferred alcohol. However I didn't like how everyone had the munchies from pot. Back then I was just as crazy about dieting...even if it didn't work! The real reason I didn't continue is that I figured It would be something I would enjoy too much if I continued.


12.  If it is cold, what do you wear to bed?

My man's t-shirts and Jammy pants or leggings. Most of the time these days I boil, so its just a t-shirt and panties.


13.  How old were you when you lost your virginity?  Share any story with which you are comfortable.

 Let me just say that when I met my husband I was in my late 20s. (I was not really  sheltered)...... We did many things....ahem.....but I truly lost my virginity on my wedding night!
What a good man to let me have that.....I still can't believe how he cared enough to wait for the complete event.


14.  Think of something you did as a kid about which you were glad your parents never found out.  If you were a perfect child, you may just respond with "Perfect", but the rest of us will hate you for it.

I am sure there are too many to count! I actually was a pleaser even as a kid, but I was a high strung child too. Oh--- the dichotomy made for some crazy stuff. Goody two shoes and mischievous!  There was a time in my teens when I imbibed so much that.....Lets just say I was carried into my house.....after I passed out on a street. My friends were with me and I was taken care of. However, my MOTHER was there for the carry into the house!


15.  Boob Question - 
Think Goldilocks and the 3 Bears.  

Do you think your boobs are: 
a.)  Too big
b.)  Too small
c.)  Just right
d.)  "All of the above" is not a valid answer


Hmmmm...... I am satisfied and my Scotsman loves my boobs! If I could add one caveat it would be to lift them a bit! Being a woman that is in the DD category, pulling them up would be nice!


Thanks for Reading!

Minelle