A Message From Our Darling Ami Starsong

This year our dear Ami and husband Dan have certainly experienced their share of troubles!

I am happy to pass on the message that many of the stresses and worries are resolving for the Starsongs! Their nightmare move from hell is complete! Yes, they still are making their house into a home, however they are reconciled to allow time for those changes!

I am also happy to report that Dan is doing well and many of the concerns they faced regarding medical tests have relieved their minds with good results. Of course our dear Ami worried herself into a bit of a cold that is hopefully resolved as of this moment!

The good news continues as our friends go off on a vacation to celebrate their love!

Ami wanted me to let you know that she will return to blogging around mid July after a short break.

I don't know about all of you but I am looking forward to hearing all the new stories from our Ami!

Thanks all,

Minelle
 

Ball Gag!

I just wanted to touch base with all of you!

Before I tell you a very funny Tidbit, I would like to express my sincere thanks to those of you who have reached out to touch base and check in with me! Life here continues with challenges. But we are doing okay!

Now a little funny to let you know how I love to push some buttons with people!

My mil has a nurse visit her twice a week. She is such a wonderful lady. Close to my age but younger.....and shares my name! LOL. I must admit that our family is easy to visit. We are not typical in our welcome I guess. We laugh and are very adaptable and easy going. Characters all--are we!

The afternoon prior to the nurses visit I brought a cup of tea into our living room, made perfectly. I placed it on our wooden coffee table where upon, my feet found comfort and I promptly kicked over my cup, spilling the hot liquid all across the wood. My Scotsman thought I wasn't paying attention, likely (in his mind) ;) thinking I was attached to my phone! (NOT I --snort!) I mopped up the mess but it didn't look nice....you know what happens....I figured I'd work on it another day! I must admit I push his buttons here since he wants me to use a coaster and I resist!

The next day when I arrived home from work Our friendly nurse was there. She smiled and we spoke about the results of her visit. She said I cleaned up good which made my evening! 

I'm not really sure how we began talking about my Scotsman, however the conversation turned to us. She remarked in a cute conspiratorial manner that I wouldn't believe what he said....I THOUGHT it was going to be how kind and solicitous he was to me....And how loving we appeared.  I looked at him ready to smile sweetly!

She then tells me how he's been grumbling most of her visit about how I spilled the tea all over the coffee table! He was waxing it and trying to get that weird milky sheen off it. I look at her laughing and she jokingly asks me , "do you feel safe? I cheekily respond.....Of Course.....what do you mean?" Wherein she says, "does he hit you?

Soooooooo I say......wait for it...........

"NOT UNLESS I WANT HIM TO!"

I thought she was going to choke! She laughed and joked TMI! Saying she  hears enough sex info with her 80 year olds.

So walking her out I teasingly tell her my Scotsman and I have to be quiet since we have very little privacy!

Then she turns and says, "well ----you should get a ball and gag!!!" 

Yep, I laughed and said see you next time!

On a real spanking note, my guy does find time to impress me with goofy and some pointed reminders when he wishes to reign me in.

We are lucky just now to be able to spend time with each other in a relaxing manner! 

Thanks for reading, 

Minelle

A Temporary Hiatus

 On the inside I feel like this!

I am sorry to say that I will be on a temporary hiatus for a bit of time, probably both blogging and reading! :( I know I am not always the most prompt of bloggers. Often you may not hear from me more than once a month. This will be slightly different. 

My Scotsman and I decided to help out his sister with some medical issues. This is not an easy decision since she is not a very trustworthy person. Knowing all that we are going to face and deal with.....we are moving forward. (FOR NOW)

Unfortunately we already have to lay down some serious, "my house my rules" talks. Between yesterday and today we have had to amp them up quite a bit. This woman is 54 years old and acts as if she is emotionally stunted at a selfish 13! She is manipulative and already talked my guys mom into giving her prescription meds and her oxygen. We are going to use a lock box and dole out the meds to his mom per day. Ugh... we may end his sisters "help" if she can't comply. We knew we were in for some rough times, but not sure we anticipated it starting "Bang On!" 

Of course my Scotsman is leaving for a couple of weeks.....so he is the one who gets tasked with talking to them before he leaves later today.

We both are fine and trying to keep our sense of humor above all. It helps that we are both on the same page with this. 

On a humorous note I was told yesterday I needed spanked and he managed with me resisting since his sister and mom were in the next bedroom. We laughed so hard....and then ended our short playful encounter by going to a lovely dinner party. 

We had plans to finish our playful encounter with some delightful loving......that didn't happen until early this morning!

What a way to wake-up! 

Until I return,

Minelle

 

A friend is blogging again.

Just popping in to let everyone Know that Clara from Clarawishes.blogspot.com is blogging again!

I am sure she would love to hear from friends again!


Minelle

Spanked for not saying NO.

I imagine a story where a particular lady of indeterminate age takes on more than she should.

She can not say no to anyone and stretches herself so thin that she bumbles around creating havoc throughout the day. It wouldn't be too terribly bad except that she puts her safety at risk to complete tasks for everyone else beside herself!

It is possible she might forget to take her much needed medicine, or to shift her car into park when on a slight incline. Maybe this lady leaves her phone at a grocery store counter or forgets to pay an important bill.

The man she calls husband decides to show her what happens when the woman he loves allows herself to fall to the bottom of the list! He makes a point to blister her bottom intending to reign in his lady love!

This is fiction......But I do tend to take on more than I should! A little fun to lift mine and others spirits!

Answers to your Questions!

lindy asked, If you could travel anywhere in the world where would you choose? Gosh I have so many places and Countries I would give my eye teeth to visit! I would love to see many places all across the United States such as: North Carolina, Wyoming, Seattle, Boston, Arizona, Missouri, Alaska, Maine, Oklahoma....and lots more. I would enjoy visiting, Ireland, England, Scotland, France, Canada, New Zealand and Australia!
 
What's your favourite implement and position? My very favorite position is over my Scotsman's Knee and his hand! Although I have a great fondness for Ronnie's heart shaped spoon and Sunny's heart slapper.....depending on if it is over jeans I like the thud of Blondie's heart shaped paddle.

Jan asked, Have you got any of your drawings on the walls at home?   I have tons of pictures on the walls of my home. There are also plenty of pictures on walls of family and friends!

 Have you tried getting a book together and getting it printed, as a coffee table book maybe? I have to admit that the idea has crossed my mind. However I am such a perfectionist it would take me a long time to complete the drawings if I put them in a book for sale. Plus I think the extent of my supporters would be all you lovely ladies!

Ronnie asked,  If anything - what scares you most about TTWD? I think this is a very thought provoking question for me. I am kind of bossy and I have a hard time letting go of certain things. A bad habit of believing I know best also plagues me. I think interfering too much in my Scotsman's decisions regarding TTWD is part of the answer. Also, not getting caught up in false realities regarding TTWD. Real isn't actually perfect and often times messy. That is what I want to remind myself.
 
Do you believe in ghosts? Yes I do. I think there are many who walk among us, but we don't always have the ability to connect. I often speak to my mom now. I believe she can hear me and may have the ability to visit. That is my hope.

Abby asked, When did you discover your artistic talent...did you draw with crayons when you were a child...ever take lessons. My earliest memory of drawing was at 3 or 4 years of age. I would sit with my mother as she taught me about art and how to draw. She was quite talented. We have many artists in our family. I have never taken lessons per se. I took 4 years of art in HS and went to college and beyond studying art. One summer in HS I was awarded a scholarship to an exclusive art camp.  I love crayons. I often used them as a child. They were always readily available! 


 How did your first spanking happen...at your suggestion...at his request... Before we were married my Scotsman pulled me over his knee and spanked me for punching him in the arm. He threatened me when I wouldn't stop. He followed through---mildly! I also remember prior to marriage throwing my ring at him and his bellowing back at me that I needed to go across his knee! He voiced these observations throughout our married life. Sometimes a swat or two or three would land on my rear. However, he didn't really
Give long spankings until I wrote a FF for PK. I hadn't shared my desires until then. I thought I needed to keep my proclivities under wraps. I was just so confused. Long story short, after I shared we began to practice the erotic component!  Needless to say he is quite happy to spank more!

Maggie asked,  Are you a cat person or a dog person? Or, perhaps, a horse person? I love dogs! We have two dogs which are pains in our butts, yet we love them! I have had cats and do love them too.






 How long have you been doing DD and did you ask for it? My guy just reigns me in. I don't consider us DD, however some people have suggested we are DD light. He certainly gets upset when I am snarky and cheeky. His response is often a threat of a spanking or to actually spank. I guess we have been open about it for as long as I have blogged..( 4 years?)..starting into the waters with the fun stuff. It has morphed into him being more comfortable with the 'CHECKING ME ASPECT!"

Rosie asked, My question is similar to Jan's: Would you consider publishing some of your drawings in a book for us all to enjoy? You flatter me. I have considered doing it, not sure it would be well received since there are so many great spanking artists here. I would need to be off work to do the drawings justice. At least that is what I feel now.

I hope I didn't miss anyone! I can still answer questions.....If anyone wants to ask!

Thanks for reading here!

Minelle

 

He Missed Spanking Me! And.....Questions?

My Scotsman was away again. It was three weeks this time. I am always sad to see him go, however I just travel into that place where I manage what I feel needs doing and leave the rest for when he returns. This time we were on opposite schedules. He was working as I slept. Unfortunately that meant if we spoke daily it consisted of fleeting moments on his short drive to or from work. 

Unfortunately, I had a health concern and a scan during that time which worried both of us. My concerns were put to rest and I am fine. As a matter of fact I have lost 13 pounds- therefore, all my worries regarding blood work and certain 'levels' are great too. No processed carbs--- are the BEST.

When my guy returns we are always ecstatic to be together once again. This time both of us endeavored to eat properly and lose some weight. I was Sargent Major in this pursuit! He knows how crazy I get!  

The moment came for us to see each other and my Scotsman definitely dropped some significant weight! I was full of compliments and so excited for him! However after a short bit of time....He didn't say anything about my loss! 

When I brought it up he said, "You always look great, and I definitely can see it!"

No, That didn't make me happy. I was irritated. Then he said, "My mom said you lost a lot of weight and I think you look wonderful!" He nuzzled and kissed me some.

I was just fuming and started to hint.....That I must not LOOK like I lost anything....SINCE he didn't notice or SAY anything.

 I know....I think its hormones.....

After ONE TOO MANY SARCASTIC COMMENTS.......

ONLY 35 minutes after our reuniting. YES...
.
He bent me over and spanked me quite firmly.
Finishing he said, "God I missed that!"

 I laughed feeling wonderfully light!

I would be fibbing if I said that was the only time in these last few days he hasn't threatened or placed his hand upon my bottom.

We're good, but I will be relieved when we can get on the same schedule again! 

PS..... drawing is an old one I never finished since there are a few mistakes...No time to make a new one....sorry

Now I know my life is anything but interesting, however, if you want to ask me questions....ask away.

Thanks for reading!

Minelle