Love Our Lurkers! And Spanking is the Spice of Love!

Today is Love our Lurkers Day! I have been a lurker for more years than a blogger. I was a lurker for five or six years before I ever thought, and I mean 'thought' about commenting. What could I possibly have to communicate or share with these fascinating people.

I can honestly say that writing to PK at New Beginnings and later corresponding with Sunny at Aimless Ramblings changed my life. I would never have even said a word, just lurked forever. The really wonderful thing about coming out of the shadows is that it becomes a dialogue not just reading. I would miss the absolutely wonderful friends who have become such a part of my heart and daily joy. So please join in the fun and just say hi.

Now on to something just a little different! Many of you know I won a Spank or Treat Gift card to Eden Fantasy donated by Starla Kaye

I am having an 'educationally delightful time' perusing all they have to offer.

I was thinking about what to ay next to Love our Lurkers, and honestly I was afraid of the traffic I would have if I said…. SEX TOY REVEAL. Or you choose Minelle's gift.

So I guess I will just say “Variety is the Spank of Love”

This is a spanking---ISH blog for goodness sake.

You don’t get too much juice here. Seriously!

Not that I’m ‘innocent’ I have been married for 21 years. We have it down pretty well, and still have fun. If we have any desires to explore we um… “research” and then practice, to perfect our um…..style!

But  toys….blush… seriously, I guess I’m sort of a novice in that department…I mean I’ve seen them….okay, maybe in movies….! And now on Eden fantasy’s site.

Eden is very informative….the various styles, materials and SIZES! 

I may mean clothes you guys!

So winning the Spank or Treat Eden Gift card is a present that may keep on giving. Ahem…

Of course many of you have weighed in, commenting in someway or another….PK, Sunny, Ana, Faerie, Blondie, Rogue, Celeste, Wilma, Bas, Cat, Lillie, MrBBSpanker, SNP, Ronnie, Adaline.

Even Irishey wondered if you'd wear me down.

Of course, I did ask my Darling…and….one of his choices was…




And....

Nice that he thinks of me this way!  


We all Know why the backless tights……spanking sheesh! No really, not kidding! ;-)



Of course I was thinking.........

And someone encouraged this purchase in pink! 


Purple.......


But I saw this in pink.



Hey maybe this instead!

You want something more adventurous?

How about a game?

Then again maybe I will completely change directions with this…..

Nah, I have many of these……

How about you choose?

Just tell me what you think in your comments…..Lurkers please join in!

Btw... Lillie is back again and her new blog is  atianandlilliesplace.blogspot.com

Thanks for reading,

Minelle

Lillie is Back

Lillie is Back!!
You can find her and occasionally Ian athttp://atianandlilliesplace.blogspot.com/


Welcome back......for good now! LOL

Good Girls Do

Good Girls Do.

Sorry Faerie! I’m stealing your line and twisting it to match my own needs.

I WON A PRIZE!!!! Details following………! Red Face.

As a Halloween treat to many of us story loving readers out in spanking bloggland, some of our favorite authors reached in to their creative costume caps and gifted us with an all Hallows eve story. If you haven’t had a chance to visit or read, it is never too late to enjoy.

There were just a few rules….after all these are ‘spanking’ authors!

Below you will find the wonderful authors who participated and offered participants the lure of exciting gifts!!!!

Take a look and hang around with these authors to enjoy all they have to offer!

Anastasia Vitsky

 Cara Bristol

Celeste Jones 

Claire Colinsgrove  

Constance Masters 

Emma K. Gardner

Patty Devlin

Renee Rose

Rollin

Starla Kaye

Sue Lyndon

OKAY ANA I’M GETTING THERE!!!!

Details Maybe to follow the THANK YOU! Devious nature of mine!

I am sending out an enormous THANK YOU to The Spank or Treat authors. Somehow little old me won a prize. A gift card to Eden Fantasy donated by Starla Kaye!

Yikes! 

However after PKs Meme, I actually believe the collective psyche of my delightful blogging friends wished me to be the recipient of a gift card to eventually manifest ‘yes’ answers and ‘experience’ of the carnal nature. Breathing after that long sentence!

Long drawn out diatribe to say, I think you manipulated this win with your thoughts……..! J

I have spoken with my dear friends to garner a bit of… ahem……advice.

PK, Sunny and Ana have offered their encouragement. ‘blush’

I haven’t decided yet…..AND I will not be giving a review Miss/Mr blogging world.

However, the next Meme may contain a yes (Celeste) where there was a no before. 

Then again……Maybe not. I am not always a rule follower!


Thanks for reading


Minelle

See That Lap Over There? I Have Been Across It.

Many of you think I am too nice to be difficult, conversely yesterday I was the epitome of the definition… feisty, in all its varied connotations.

Feisty:

* full of animation, energy, or courage; spirited; spunky; plucky:

* ill-tempered; pugnacious. Yep that last part as well!

We were attending a special event and were stressed. Our children had caused us to leave the house tense and upset with them, and each other. I am always concerned with doing the right thing, and that often makes me righteous, regarding my views.

The ride in to the event was close to an hour. During that time traffic had become congested. I started to freak about my husband’s driving. I know most of you would have wanted to boot me out of the car. I admit I was awful. He is an excellent driver, but I was edgy.

He actually said if you don’t stop I am going to put you over my knee in this car, trying to lighten the mood. I laughed trying to picture me crossing the stick shift. However his next words did crack me up. He threatened to spank me in front of all my friends…..He never would, but it cinched the deal, making us both throw our nasty moods out the window.

The afternoon nicely led into the evening where we ended up socializing with a relative and later her husband. We were partaking of some ‘Spirits’ and she brought up 50 Shades, I could tell she was intrigued. After hinting at the naughtiness of the book she expressed concern that Anastasia couldn't sit after he spanked her with the belt. 

My lips were loose and I said that it was ridiculous. I went on to express my opinion challenging hers saying it wasn’t extreme….

I know ‘shut-up’ right?

I said anyone who has played with spanking knows that wasn't so horrible. 

Her eyes opened enthusiastically. She looked between us and said ‘no way?’

“Aye.”

 I lied a bit here since we have never used an implement but it bugs me when people get upset with the mild spanking in the book.

Then I turned to my husband and he received my telepathic assent, as she smiled eagerly, anticipating more juice.

He looked up and stated, “yes really.”

She was definitely intrigued and interested.

I took a sip of my wine and changed the subject.

 Devious huh?

Good naturedly taking the hint, she spoke about another relative of ours who said their kids NEVER fought. All of us lament about our kids don’t we?

I said look at their mom and dad’s personalities both are so mild mannered, of course their children were naturally mild mannered.

Here I lead us back to the preceding discussion only I am the only one with this knowledge.

Looking at her, I explained that my kids are very loyal but definitely fight….then I looked at my husband and said, “you certainly know my feisty emotive personality… and how my husband is. We both have very strong temperaments. We are passionate, to say the least. We are social and loving but our natures have at times clashed.

She lived with me for several years so she knows I am very loving and nurturing but sometimes…… ‘excitable’

This is where I said it……

I looked across to my husband and said, “see that lap over there?" I have been across it.”

For the second time that night I shocked her, her laugh was bright and her smile was wide.

“Really?”  Leaning in she wanted more explanation.

I smiled and said “yep.” And changed the subject.

Thanks for reading.

Minelle

BTW- Everyone We have exciting news, Celeste's book Underwear Probation can be downloaded for free on Amazon today through Midnight (Pacific time) October 31. 

PK's Meme game, and my 'bucket list'

I decided to play along with PK and many others answering questions that will actually make me seem as if I am Ms. Innocent. However the object of the game is to answer ‘yes’ or ‘no. That makes this very difficult.

You see, I do not do well on STANDARDIZED TESTS. I always want to explain. ha! ha!

There are not questions like…..

Have you ever drawn a naked person sitting or standing in front of you? Explain.

Have you ever slept naked? Explain why, why not, or when.

Do you wear sexy corsets and garter belts? No explanation.

Have you ever used……? Not talking about that!

Have you ever created mischief and ran so as not to get caught? Describe what occurred.

Have you ever been spanked in the bedroom naked? No explanation.

Well you get the idea.

In answering these questions I am assuming the word ‘slept’ means having sex.

Taken a picture naked? No

Made money illegally? No

Had a one night stand? No

Been in a fist fight? Yes

Slept with your best friend? Yes

Had sex in a public place? No

Ditched work to have sex? No

Slept with a member of the same sex? No

Seen someone die? No

Ran from the police? No

Woke up somewhere and not remember how you got there? Yes

Worn your partner’s unmentionables? Yes

Fallen asleep at work? Yes

Used toys in the bedroom? 

Ran a red light? No

Been fired? Yes

Been in a car accident? Yes

Pole danced or done a striptease? No

Loved someone you shouldn't? Yes

Sang karaoke? Yes

Done something you told yourself you wouldn't? Yes

Laughed so hard you peed your pants? Yes

Caught someone having sex? Yes

Kissed a perfect stranger? Yes

Shaved your partner? No

Given your private parts a nickname? No

Ever gone in public without underwear? No

Had sex on a roof top? No

Played chicken? No

Mooned/flashed someone? No

Do you sleep naked? No

Blacked out from drinking? Yes

Felt like killing someone? Yes

Had sex more than 5 times in one day? No

Been with someone because they were in a band? No

Taken 10 shots of liquor in a day? No

Shot a gun? No

Gone outside naked? No

I guess this could actually be used as something of an adventuress ‘Bucket list.’

Of course I think it would be a real challenge if everyone put up a list of other ‘Naughty things’ not on this list. 

Thanks for reading!

Minelle

Sorry for the strange background, I haven't a clue why it did this!

Thank You Bonnie!

I am celebrating ‘Bonnie Appreciation Day’ with many bloggers in the spanking community today.

Bonnie makes everyone feel welcome whether you are a small time blogger like me or a popular site with mega traffic.

She encourages and shares her experiences to those of us who wish to blog, creating and promoting a community, benefiting from the open minded attitudes many of us embrace.

Thanks for reading,

Minelle

A Rambling 360 Degree Week of Normal life

Spoiler alert....lots of rambling. Feel free to skip.

You know how life throws minor curve balls at times, challenging you to keep a positive mental attitude? Well this past week was one of those weeks for me. It started out perfectly fine. Last Saturday my husband and I had a lovely day. It started with playful ‘practicing’ in the early morning. Since the teens were asleep (dead to the world) it even commenced in the ‘living room.’ I notice my darling is certainly not afraid of upping the intensity now. As a matter of fact he has taken to showing his frustration a bit more forcefully. I know many of you suggested early on after sharing his comment that he wasn't afraid of hurting me, to…. watch out. Well this past week those swats were definitely different, not like a DD relationship more like ‘irritation resolved.’

I digress; we went on a great bike ride choosing a different path from our normal one. We loved the fall scenery and even ended the day with dinner at my sisters.

Now that I think about it events began the preceding week. You know I am very close to my family in spirit and proximity. A close family member of mine was in a bad accident but they are doing fine. Another member of my family was injured twice in one week at work, not doing too well. Last but not least, one car was towed and we were in a car accident as well. I feel it is irrelevant to even share the details. Frankly it doesn't really matter, the week was challenging. Whiplash and long days on my feet make healing worse- and better at the same time.

This is where the smiles become easier….I wasn't really crabby just frustrated. Friday I needed to pick up my daughter after school. Realizing I would make better use of my time if I didn't go home before picking her up, I headed to a grocery store. I was in the checkout lane gabbing away with the cashier, when my total rang up $88.88. He went into a spiel about the relevance of the number. I laughed and listened.

As I was putting away my card, he briefly walked away, and then pulled my cart to me. In the cart was a bouquet of flowers! I looked at the flowers than back up at him perplexed. He said, for your $88.88 number.

 I offered my sincere thanks.

Wow…a bit of changing Karma I thought. It is wonderful what a little sunshine can do for your day.

Several years ago we were blessed with the arrival of a nephew born with special needs. He is truly the sunshine in our lives. I thought we had it all before he was born, but the way our family rallied supportively has made us all better. Every child and teen became more intuitive and sensitive to the plight and blessings of a child who has challenges they could never imagine before he was born.

The point of all of this is that on Saturday night we were at a charity event to raise money for an organization that helps children and adults live the best life possible. I sat at a table with all my siblings and my cousin, including all the spouses and thought how blessed my life is.

Now onto this evening, my mother had a birthday today and we all came together to celebrate the milestone with lots of food laughter and love. There were probably 40 people present. What a testament to the life she and my father led to have family that enjoys being together.

Believe me when I say our life is not always a bed of roses. Life is a myriad of experiences good and often challenging. Nonetheless, I love when I am yanked back into reality by recognizing all that is good.

See.... 360, full circle.

BTW...Thank you to those of you who listened to my rambling nonsense this week..

 PK, Sunny, Ana, Bas and Rogue!

Minelle