Sunny's "JUST WONDERING" MEME

Are you on Facebook? Yes I am.
 

If the answer is yes, do you respond to what you consider stupid posts?Sometimes, just for fun!

 

Name one of your favorite bugaboos? (person, place or thing that really bothers you) I ABSOLUTELY HATE THE DIVISIVE POLITICS IN THE U.S. RIGHT NOW! I try very hard not to post political stuff. Now and again I may cave and "like: something political. I actually cannot deal with the negative vitriol out in politic land at the moment. Please realize it is the idiots in charge who love to pit us against one other so we stop looking at them!

 

How many FB friends do you have? 200 plus....

Assuming you have an email account, how often do you check? Depending on the account I check some several times a day. I guess I am nutty.

 

Do you have more than one email account? I have more than three. One for work, one personal and my blogging email. I have about three others that are related to blogging. I don't remember how to access them. I was a computer mess at the beginning! 

 

Do you twitter, or is it tweet? No way! One more thing? My kids and the younger people at work all do that!

 

Do you have a mobile phone? God yes! It is my lifeline! I read everything on it!

Is it a smartphone or one of the old-fashioned kind? I feel lucky to have a smartphone!

How often do you check for messages, text or otherwise? Don't ask....I am compulsive at times. That is all I will say! 

 

Do you get accused of being on the phone or computer too much? Ummmm.....Read above.

 

If so, by who? My Scotsman for one..Many times he asks for it...however he can also be on his phone a bit at times ;0....I think I am worse however!

Would you rather read on an e-reader or an actual book? For spanking books I like e-readers, otherwise I believe I would read a regular book when I can. But then again I haven't done that recently. I am all on Kindle, Nook, ibooks or Kobe

 

 

The title of the last book you read in any genre? I read a lot of books at the same time so....

Loving His China Doll by Sunny, The Secret Diary of a Disciplined Wife by Ronnie. Ive started Cassie Corralled by PK, Ghosts by Laura Spinella, In The Woods by Jana French....

There are more but you will think I am totally a nut...

 

Thanks for reading

 

Minelle 

Ella's Winter Meme!

Thank You Ella for this Meme!


1.  You have to leave your house because of a disaster.  All the people and pets you love are safe.  If you could choose just one item to carry out, what would it be?

I guess this question made me think to prepare! First I need to scan every picture I have in my house! I would already have my phone on my person.....so if I scanned all my pics to my laptop.....Id grab that! Ugh but now I am thinking about my own art......!!!


2.  Tell us about a book or series of books you loved as a child.

I devoured mysteries and romance! I remember a series called the Happy Hollisters! I loved Nancy Drew and later The Borrowers....at about 14, I was into Harliquin Romance books!



3.  Name one item of clothing that you love for your spouse to wear.

 Hmmm......I love when my Scotsman wears his soccer (Football) teams shirts. His favorite colors representing his team make him happy and I love seeing him that way!


4.  Is there a lullaby your mom or dad sang to you that you also sang to your child?

 My parents sang all the time. I can't remember one lullaby. Mom used to sing 'School Days' on long car trips. Dad sang a few children's songs as he got ready in the morning....intensionally to wake us up! However, I have fond memories of Sundays after Church when my parents would play musicals and opera on our record player!


5.  Tell about the fanciest restaurant at which you have ever dined.

 I can't remember the name....and I am sure I have never eaten at a restaurant that was super expensive.....However white table clothed, middle of the road classy.......There are MANY.
But, the Gulf Coast on our Honeymoon-- a Seafood restaurant is my choice!


6.  Tell us about any phobias you have. What else are you scared of?

I am terrified of spiders! TERRIFIED! I actually jumped out of a slow moving car on a hill to get away from a spider! I also traumatized my niece to kill a spider that was crawling on my seat as I was driving.....Hmmmm... then there was the time I stripped thinking a spider was on me....DID I TELL YOU I AM TERRIFIED?


7.  Is there something old from a family member that you treasure?

The things I cherish are gifts given from the heart of another. However I do have a couple of antique pieces from my parents. One is a beautiful painted bowl my dads mother kept her jewelry in, another is a small china cabinet in my basement my moms dad refinished.


8.  If there is reading material in your bathroom, what magazines or books could be found? 

 TONS of magazines! Smithsonian or health type magazines!


9.  Tell us about your dearest childhood friend. Besides the typical out door stuff?

My Cousin and my sisters are truly my best friends from my childhood! We all shared secrets, played dress-up, long board games and traveled with each other! Each of these special woman are those I would trust with my life.  Not sure I would share COMPLETELY about the spanking stuff. However some know the crazier or wilder side and others see the mature big sister!


10.  Is there a household task that belongs to your husband? 

He usually washes dishes and does quite a bit of laundry. I HATE those chores. I do other things he doesn't enjoy lest you think I am terrible. OH and I HATE getting gas in the car! ( lots of bellowing and maybe a few smacks related to that last one.... depending on his tolerance level.)


11.  Have you ever smoked pot?  How old were you the first time?  Do you still enjoy?

Yes, I was in college. I preferred alcohol. However I didn't like how everyone had the munchies from pot. Back then I was just as crazy about dieting...even if it didn't work! The real reason I didn't continue is that I figured It would be something I would enjoy too much if I continued.


12.  If it is cold, what do you wear to bed?

My man's t-shirts and Jammy pants or leggings. Most of the time these days I boil, so its just a t-shirt and panties.


13.  How old were you when you lost your virginity?  Share any story with which you are comfortable.

 Let me just say that when I met my husband I was in my late 20s. (I was not really  sheltered)...... We did many things....ahem.....but I truly lost my virginity on my wedding night!
What a good man to let me have that.....I still can't believe how he cared enough to wait for the complete event.


14.  Think of something you did as a kid about which you were glad your parents never found out.  If you were a perfect child, you may just respond with "Perfect", but the rest of us will hate you for it.

I am sure there are too many to count! I actually was a pleaser even as a kid, but I was a high strung child too. Oh--- the dichotomy made for some crazy stuff. Goody two shoes and mischievous!  There was a time in my teens when I imbibed so much that.....Lets just say I was carried into my house.....after I passed out on a street. My friends were with me and I was taken care of. However, my MOTHER was there for the carry into the house!


15.  Boob Question - 
Think Goldilocks and the 3 Bears.  

Do you think your boobs are: 
a.)  Too big
b.)  Too small
c.)  Just right
d.)  "All of the above" is not a valid answer


Hmmmm...... I am satisfied and my Scotsman loves my boobs! If I could add one caveat it would be to lift them a bit! Being a woman that is in the DD category, pulling them up would be nice!


Thanks for Reading!

Minelle










      









 

A broken bed!

Saturday mornings are lovely when my Scotsman is home. We get to sleep late and just veg out. Neither one of us is into pressuring each other to begin cleaning, running errands or shopping!

We both have our coffee routines. I love using a coffee press with organic French Roast whereas he buys a coffee shop brand.  Whomever is up first lets the dogs out and begins the morning.

I am often on my phone perusing blogs, stories or FB while watching cooking shows. He is watching soccer on the computer or on his phone! 

It is nice to have this time. However as the morning gets later we often start our day and may have some obligations. 

His mom gets up later, after we have been up a while....

This is often the time MY GUY frequently begins getting amorous!

Seriously! :)

A few months ago his mom had slipped back into bed after having tea and toast.  We were sitting next to one another on the longer of our couches. I think I was being a bit cheeky and slightly intense. Nothing really bad, more fun teasing. Some time went bye and all of a sudden.......

My Scotsman pulled me across his knees. I was in my pjs as was he. He started spanking. Not really hard, but firmly. I turned and said, " why are you spanking me?" He replied, "Just because!"

Then he started rubbing as well as spanking and pulled me up saying......"Right lets go into the bedroom!" :))

I said...."Why?"  Now---- I knew WHY, but I played dumb!

He pushed me down the hall guiding me quickly. The door closed behind me and the lock was pushed. I was nervous since his mom was awake....MAYBE, and our son's room is below us!

I said, "what are we doing?" He said, "get over that bed" as he laid me over the edge......

Spanking began with renewed vigor, and we both felt it was a bit loud. It makes us nervous that we will be discovered! However I need not have worried, YET! 

THE LOUD PART!

He was READY for some other loving!

Clothes were magically removed or pushed out of the way!

Position was ahem.....not completely on the bed, at least for him.

ALL OF A SUDDEN.....WE heard a loud crack! OOPS!

Our eyes met over the close position!

We heard a couple planks fall under the bed.

Ugh.....we whispered.... saying, "So LOUD!"

ACTIVE MOVEMENT STOPPED!

Our thoughts ran to our son in the basement waking, and his MOM walking to our door, jiggling the knob, and asking if we were okay!

NEXT, the dogs began to bark at our door!

 NO THIS CAN'T BE HAPPENING!

I said, "FINISH!" 

LOL! 

YES I DID! 

As he began those MOVEMENTS again......

MORE PLANKS FELL.....

THEN

The BED

COMPLETELY COLLAPSED!  



Thanks for reading!

Minelle

 

Just Because!

I know it has been a long time....

Sorry.

Life.

However I thought I would do a quick (really quick) drawing.

 I called it "Just Because"

Yes this has happened.

Spanked by my Scotsman......and when I asked WHY are you 

spanking?, he replied....

"Just Because I can!"

A few months ago, It led to us breaking our bed!

I will leave you with that thought. 

Thanks for reading,

Minelle

Ella's "HAVE YOU EVER?"

Ella created a fun Meme for many of us to try! It was a lot of fun! Of course my life is not nearly as exciting as hers!

1.  Said something very rude to a doctor during childbirth? No, but I should have……I was high risk with my first pregnancy. I had Preeclampsia  and other complications.  There was a very eager resident who was 'grand standing.' I needed to be induced and he snuck in to break my water….The idiot didn’t let the nurses know or make sure the bed was covered etc…..I had no clue this was unusual but those nurses let him know!

2.  Seen someone pop their eyeball out? Nah….but I actually had an experience with a bouncing cow’s eyeball in a HS Biology class!

3.  Had your stomach pumped? No, never. Thank goodness!

4.  Been to a drag show with a very large gay man? Definitely been to a few drag shows with some very attractive tall gay men!

5.  Eaten a worm? Thought about what would happen if someone ate the worm in a bottle of Taquilla!

6.  Run a nifty, little money-making business when you were 11-12 years old buying girlie magazines for the boys in the neighborhood? No but read them when I was babysitting at a funeral home around the age of 14

7.  Crawled through an underground storm sewer for 5 blocks? Um….Never ever would I have gone down into something like that! LOL

8.  Lied about your weight? Every single day of my life! I even refuse to get weighed at the doctors these days!

9.  Needed your husband to help you up the stairs because you were inebriated? I have been in some situations where I was a bit unsteady! Hubby was there to assist! But I have also helped the man!

10.  Seen a movie star in an airport? Not the airport, but I have seen a movie star in Ireland!

11.  Walked out of a movie? I don’t think I have……

12.  Sat on a jury? I have been called for Jury duty but I have always been let go…..

13.  Told a child, "Because I said so." Oh yes I have! I used to be so idealistic. I promised myself I would always talk to my kids….and at school. Eh! It is so very liberating to use those words!

14.  Ran a cash register in a small grocery store when you were 8 years old? No but played store with a toy cash register!

15.  Wrote a eulogy for a parent? I have been involved with the communal theme and thoughts that were to be shared at my mother’s Eulogy this past May.

16.  Heard a song you were sure was written and sung just for you? Not sure I have thought a song was written specifically for me, however I have felt that songs have captured emotions for me during difficult and happy times.

17.  Roasted chestnuts on an open fire? No, however we always received Chestnuts in our Christmas stockings as a child!

18.  Eaten 44 shrimp at one sitting? I never counted. However I am sure I have come close! I LOVE shrimp!

19.  Thrown all phones in a drawer for the entire weekend? PANIC! I am unfortunately addicted to a phone or PC. My Scotsman is bad too, however he has taken the phone from me a few times, (I may be worse than him) when I am not in the moment. He always returns it after a short time!

20.  Gone on a vacation all by yourself? No, but I have gone to museums by myself. LOL

Thanks Ella!

Minelle

Scottish Barn Burner

My Scotsman is home! I am so relieved and happy he is back with us! We hate being apart. While he is away, many of our conversations begin and end with how much we hate being apart. The older we get the harder it is! My guy and I never let a day go by without saying the essential sentiment, “I LOVE YOU!” 

We are goofy and playful, teasing and spontaneous. Nonetheless, we have moments when we just get upset and cross with one another. We are each VERY emotional people. 

Often when a partner is gone for periods of time there are interludes I will call honeymoon and readjustment phases. My Scotsman and I both struggle with expectations.

I know this will happen, however as I get older I want to rush over the adjustment times and only embrace the great, LOVING.

The cuddling and intimate fun to be exact!

I start to back away from all I am juggling and often expect he can read my mind as to these duties I am relinquishing!

Unfortunately, I become quite snarky believing he SHOULD

KNOW……EVERYTHING…..MOSTLY……BY ……

OSMOSIS

Last Sunday I was angry and irritated with the whole process. I wanted my time with him NOW. We had connected…..but remember our time has some barriers to intimacy since his mother has been with us, as well as her being quite ill lately. 

He is full of love and appreciation for all I do…..BUT I can’t seem to help myself when I feel he should “Jump into affection as soon as I want it!” That could mean he can be in the middle of a project and I say…….., 

“How can you not recognize that we have time to have fun….and you are sitting here doing…..(Fill in the blank)

My comments and pushing had him threatening a major spanking of epic proportions. I didn’t believe him……NOPE not one bit. He always smacks and spanks, but the really long and intense ones are mostly for fun or stress relief.

I have to remember this time and NEVER PUSH the man! 

Well…….last Sunday after he arrived on Saturday…..

I decided we had a bit of time. Now, the man loves being intimate with me. However he has been gone almost three months and we have so many things that need our attention.

In the middle of cooking dinner, I noticed his mother was asleep. Since she is all but deaf, I figured he should be aware that we had time to run into the bedroom and make wild passionate love! He was intently filling out paperwork and paying bills.

 I said, “ I cannot believe you don’t want to make love with me!”

He looked up with that glazed eyed stare…. “Huh?”

“Fine!” I humphed.  (I am a woman who is smart and capable…..however…..I continued)

Interject…..side comments and slightly sarcastic moments in the next bit of time!

He did say, “we will get to the loving…. Let me finish……”

I followed him into the living room after more disgruntled talk….

“FINE I am going into the bedroom by myself…..AND…..WITH OR WITHOUT YOU I am having fun!”

OH BOY was I mad!

SO WAS HE!

“RIGHT YOU ARE IN FOR IT NOW! Into the bedroom. You are getting a spanking to remember!” He mouthed.

I snorted, saying “SURE…..I don’t think so!”

Then he stood up and walked behind me gently corralling me into our room.

I thought oops maybe I went too far! 

Down across the bed I went.

His hand was fast and furious across my behind! He went to town. I was ouching and kicking my legs some. 

He said, “Put your legs down I am not finished!”

He moved to the other side! I can’t believe you are acting this way. He may have even told me to be a good girl!

“You really need a good spanking!” 

This spanking was given over my pants and I felt it even though he always is mindful of his strength!

I did have a virgin butt until this moment!

MIRACULOUSLY I felt great after he was finished!

CALM and COOL! (Except the pain in my bottom)

The next couple of days saw me feeling tender, deep not surface hurt.

We did get to the loving later that night!

All in all our reconnection is moving along., including his

 Scottish Barn Burner.

 Sorry about the recycled images! Didn't have time to draw new ones!

Next time I will share how we broke our bed!

Thanks for reading!

Minelle