Spanked a few times this weekend.

I am in a stressed out place.

My Scotsman has been gone almost constantly since the start of this year. He is working LONG nights so we are on completely opposite schedules.

Phone conversations are basically, “I just woke up and now I need to rush to work, or I am going to be late. Is everything okay with you, the kids, your family and mum?”

If he gets a chance to travel from the house he returns in the morning after I leave and starts off to work before I get home.

If and when he has a couple of days off work, the man is in a fog because he can’t seem to realign easily to our normal day schedule.                           

 I actually picture a deep sea diver from the 40s.

 There is also the added stress of locating the next job. Not always a problem since the Scotsman is respected and well liked in his profession. But……

You get the picture….

Then add my serious job stress, family management difficulties, (lots of major issues here) any minor tragedy occurring like….. a rogue mouse, ants taking over, dogs gone wild, A minor flood, hosting a large family gathering without help….minor health issues with me and other family members…Making the needed time for my parents, and my Scotsman's mom. (who lives with us)

(I am only sharing the easy stuff…you'd think I was crazy...lol) 

 SO...guess what?

 I start doing stupid things because I am over extended and NEVER know how to say NO.

So I end up......

 

*Losing my phone in the car…..for 20 minutes.

*Texting directly in front of two administrators. WHAT WAS I THINKING?

 

*Getting hurt twice at two different trainings….sigh…

Yada…yada…yada…

Of course, even if it isn’t logical…who do I get aggravated with??? 

My poor Scotsman.

Now mind you he is NOT perfect! Now shush some of you…he isn’t...

However…when you feel safe…to push….

Grrrrrrrrrrr..........

I guess I have gritted my teeth, talked in a very cheeky manner, and basically had steam seeping from my ears, the top of my head and through my teeth.                                                            

Maybe even said I was going to do whatever I felt like. I know...I know....sounds awful..

 

I have even texted someone suggesting I was going to ‘stoat’ my husband.

So……yes I have had a few moments…..of

ATTENTION.

I was told if I gritted my teeth at him one more time I was going to be spanked ….

I have been over the bed twice….

Rolled over in bed twice…OUCH….Once I even flung my hand back……that hand was grabbed by my guy and placed away from his descending hand.

These are quick statements...of his displeasure.

 

 He is not harsh- ever- just makes his point ‘quickly apparent.’ And we are always okay.

Even if I am still angry!

Once over the weekend I was told how lucky it was he turned around to check behind us, before he spanked…..yep….

We have had some light hearted moments.

A lovely breakfast brunch....and

My Scotsman later said, “He does the warning and I do the obeying”…That did make us both laugh since he is not a controlling guy.

I just want some normal……Or a sexy vacation...